:-) Kids..... "the talk"?

Question

My Husband said he wants more kids!!!! i told him we have enough! (we have 4)

and my yougest is almost 2... in December.. and thats to close in age.

if we were to have another one..

i dont know..... I just think fours enough!!

what do you think???

Answer 1

If our second child is a boy then we are going to stop because we will have one of each but if not we will go for three....if number three is a girl too then I will just have to shoot myself.   I would never live to see four.

Answer 2

Well the choice is really on you! and it depends on the situration.

for example if your having some trouble with money, then i don't reccomend you to have one, you migh have too work full time and not be able to spend time with each kid.

you need to love and care each one of your child the same, but it gets difficult when you have alot of them. (over 4)

Although you never know.... the next child your having, could be a priminster, or become famouse... you never know...

like michael jackson, he wasn't suppose to be born... it was an accident!!.......

Answer 3

If your hubby can send 5 children to college then go ahead. if not explain without being angry or without putting an argument. Just tell him honestly.  

Answer 4

Oh Dear - Are we married to the same man?? lol

My Husband and I have 5 son's. The youngest 2 are 5 months, and the eldest is turning 5 in February.

He has the guts to ask me if we can have MORE!! I love our kids, but no more PLEASE.

If my Husband had his way we'd have a 100, but I am more than happy with our 5 sons. MORE than happy. :D

I think if he carried them, and birthed them he'd have different feelings on the matter. ;)

Good Luck

Answer 5

two years isn't that close together in age... my sister in law has 5 from newborn to 8 years old.

Answer 6

I think you need to get your children looked after for an afternoon, take your man off somewhere quietly an open up your heart to him and really take time to talk,,,,, talk,,,,,, talk.

I don't think there's any other solution to the problem.

Try to see why he is so keen on having more children.  Really try to understand and then ask him to listen to your perspective.

I really hope you find a happy solution here.

Answer 7

Buy that man a puppy!!  SHEESH!!  4 is enough!  Start talking about college funds, wedding costs, and all of the other BIG expenses that are bound to come up!!  

Answer 8

if he does not accept your wants and decicions then boot him coz he is not respecting you

Answer 9

If you are Mormon, then you need more.

If you aren't, 4 is enough.  

Any more will look like a factory.