Kids wont sleep at night til 3am HELP!!!!?

Question

my kids are 3 boy 9m girl. somhow our routine went out tha window. they dont go to sleep till 3 4 or 5 am. so of course we dont wake up til 12 noon. I tried staying up(myself) and waking them both up at 7 or 8am and have a normal day. but son will conk out at 5pm and up all nite. or go to bed early and i still have baby to deal with. she is the hardest to get to sleep. she will go to sleep at 8pm or 9pm and wake at 10 or 11 pm and up again. I am losing my mind!!!! not really but would like to sleep in bed wit hubby instead of laying down to sleep when he get up 4 work. the joke is the living room is my new room since i often end up asleep on couch with baby. sorry so long.

Answer 1

For years my 4 yr old has been on the same schedule, bathtime is at 7pm, teethbrushed at 7:30 and pee, into bed and book read at 7:45 and lights out at 8pm.  NO QUESTIONS ASKED!  He gets up at 7am and it is off to daycare w/ me or daddy till 5pm.  He is home at 5:15, dinner is at 5:30.  He has about an hour to play and watch TV.  I could not ask for a better, well adjusted child, he is an angel.  We stick to the same schedule on the week-ends, either with a sitter or his Nunny.  It is all about you taking control and setting the pace.

Answer 2

Keep them awake in the evenings until you get back on schedule. If they fall asleep, wake them up. Limit there daytime naps. Itll all turn around if you make it happen.