Kind of depressed about guys? any advice?

Question

im 16 and i feel really lonely and depressed. i have had at boyfriend at the end of last year, but i wasnt happy and we broke up. this year i have had a few guys hanging around but they dont seem like the right one!!! im not that shy and i dont think im hideous looking. there was this guy recently who i was mad about, but it turns out he probably doesnt like me! ppl say hes shy and a coward, and we met a few times but after that it sort of just stopped our friendship. i already had low self esteem from an incident at the beginning of the year, and i had just started to love myself again, but its just dropped now. i get really depressed about stuff. why does it always turn out like this? i see ppl with their boyfriends and want to cry, it makes me angry that im so ungrateful but i cant seem to control these feelings.

is it just me that feels this way?

Answer 1

Yeah I remember when I was 16. Everything kinda seems like "why them and not me" right? I used to have self image problems (still kinda do now) but just hang in there. You will find the right guy. Just keep being sociable. You have a long time ahead of you, use it wisely. Don't fret over guys (were to stupid for you to do that over us) just keep living your life have fun hang out with friends.

One word of advice ont he guy thing. Coming from a guy that probably speaks for all of us. If you like one of us tell us! We will never figure it out. We are just to stupid.... Okay well not never but it will take forever and a lot of guys like a girl that's not making us chase after them.

Hope I helped. You sound like a good person I'm positive you will find the man of your dreams someday.

Answer 2

you're 16, grow up, then worry about ****.

Answer 3

i feel you...

be with your friends and enjoy lifee :)

Answer 4

I understand how you feel.I think you should just wait for the right guy.I'm patiently waiting.

Answer 5

No, it's not just you. Being 16 sucks on so many levels but is also good. Most of the time when you are a teen you want what you can't have, any guy who likes you - you can't stand - but then you like the guys that would not like you. It's just part of growing up. The guys that do like you - are probably good guys. Give em more of a chance. The guys you like now are probably all going to end up in jail. We always like the bad boys.