Kinda Embarrassing but.....?

Question

ive never kissed a guy before.

i mean ive had bfs and theyve tried to kiss me but either i never felt so much for them or the timing wasnt right or whateveer and i was wondering if anyone could offer advice?

i know this is sad but my friends are of no help. and lol im sure as h**l not asking anyone else.

sooo?????

Answer 1

I'm in the same situation. One guy asked me what I would do if he tried to kiss me...I said sneeze. Which, now looking back, probably was the wrong choice =P How lame does that sound lol

Answer 2

I'm presuming you're still a young teenager, i.e.: under 16?

Well, there's no need to rush into it, either way. Kissing is pretty d**n intimate, so don't feel that you should rush into it just because everyone else has.

Just take your time, and only do what you are comfortable with. =)

Answer 3

Well i dont know how old you are but i had my first proper kiss when i was 12, on the lips.

Don't worry about it. Its not worth stressing over. Maybe you need a little confidence :)

Answer 4

I think maybe when you have a boyfriend just try loosen up and kiss him when he wants to kiss you.. kissing is really no big deal.. so dont be nervous.. and if you truley are terrified or whatever just in that slipt second that you lean in for the kiss..just dont think at all.. make your mind blank.... and you'llbe fine.. kissing is easy.. (",)..

Hope I could help..

Joanne

Answer 5

don't rush anything that's not a bad thing. i mean really look at the way s*x is to most people, casual. It's nice to know that some people still have feeling about signs of affection

Answer 6

haha

sounds just like me

but just go with the flow

Answer 7

If it makes you feel better, im 16 and i just got my first boyfriend. I know people who had boyfriends and there first kisses in like third grade. But im glad i didn't.

My advice is don't feel bad, it will happen when it does. Just don't stress.

Answer 8

what age are you? if your in your early teens, dont worry about it, its normal to be nervous. if you quite a bit older than that, then it is a bit of a problem. i was VERY nervous the first time i kissed a guy, but after i realized i had ben making a big fuss over nothing.

dont just kiss a guy because you feel you have to, wait until you find someone you really like, itll be much easier if you are comfortable with the person

Answer 9

What kind of advice are you expecting, exactly?

You didn't really ask a question; you just asked for advice.

Advice about what?

How to kiss?

How to feel comfortable enough with your boyfriends to kiss them?

Suggestions that you stop worrying about "liking him enough" or "having the right timing" and just kiss someone if you want to? (Honestly, that's what I did. I was 15, my close friends had all kissed people, and I was feeling kind of lame about it. So I decided, "Who cares?" and just ended up kissing this random hot kid a couple years older rather than making it special and whatever. And that was fine - at 12 or 13, maybe it would have been really cute and nice to have a boyfriend and be all shy and then share a first kiss after like a month, but that was grade 7. In my town grade 7 is elementary school and there's way less pressure to grow up quickly like there is in middle school, so for most of us, having a boyfriend meant your moms drove you to the movies, where you maybe held hands and then hugged after, and then your respective moms picked you up and drove you home. So by 15 I realized that guess what, I was a few years too old for that. Plus my friends were slightly impressed/jealous which made me feel better about having been the non-kissing one for longer than them. Hah.)

Answer 10

Just dont rush... simple as it sounds all you have to do is wait and you'll no what you want and when you want it. Just dont force yourself to or let other people force you to do things you dont want to.  

Answer 11

Don't worry about it, i never got my first proper kiss till i was 13

I think you just need abit more self esteem, or you might not be ready yet.. and you probably didn't like your boyfriends as much as you thought you did, and you didn't feel comfortable with them

You will eventually get to kiss someone when the times right, its not worth worrying about, its completly natural to feel the way you do

x

Answer 12

ask again in singles and dating.  

Answer 13

ok well my best friend had the same problem!!!

i guess just wait

u will find that one eventually but

just give guys a chance to get to know u better so u can feel like u want to kiss them

Answer 14

i didn't get my first kiss until this year and i'm fifteen, so it's nothing to rly be embarassed about. My advice? wait til the right guy that you just absolutely are crazy about and can't resist but to kiss him :D