Kissing boyfriend?

Question

Hey guys!

Okay, this is by far the most ridiculous thing ever.

My boyfriend and I have been going out 6 weeks now.

He loves to kiss and cuddle, but for some reason, I feel weird after we do, like it isn't something I should be doing.

For instance, after making out, I just had these thoughts running through my head like "What would my mom think?"

Is this something that I can stop?

Should I feel bad?

Answer 1

nope thats finne

Answer 2

you're probably just a little bit paranoid that its your first boyfriend and everything else. and LUCKY YOU! your boyfriend seems like a great guy who just likes to be with you because it seems like he's not the type to pressure you to do something you're not into.

i used to say to myself that i wanted to save s*x for marriage but unfortunately the opportunity present itself and there's a chance that i could be pregnant. don't make the same mistake as i did. if you really like your boyfriend, sooner or later all those scary thoughts and feelings will soon wear off.  besides, your 16 years old and by now your mom has probably already assumed that the two of you are kissing, unless she doesn't know about this new boyfriend of yours.

Answer 3

I don't see why you should.

Answer 4

you seem responsible, and its probably just because its your first boyfriend.

Answer 5

Wow...i remember those little feelins. Like a feelin in ur stomach like wat am i doin?! But now it doesnt really bother me cuz its normal. Im still a virgin so wat am i doin wrong? Its  jus kissin and my bf understands thats as far as it would go cuz i kno id regret it if i did it now

Answer 6

well were your parents strict about guys? this could be it, you might just keep thinking about how they used to think and treat u and feel like your violating that innocence that you had

Answer 7

is this ur first bf?

then thats probly why

i think u will get used to it after awhile

and im sure ur mother wouldn't find this inappropiate considering u are growing up and maturing

just don't take it too far lol

good luck 8)

Answer 8

kissing and making out isnt bad. but how old are you? and i give you major props for waiting to have s*x until you are married! i hope you keep that promise to yourself, and if you do you are a very strong person!

Answer 9

maybe its because he is ur first bf

Answer 10

it seems fine to me, but you probably feel this because you aren't mature enought to make out with someone or you aren't comfortable with this person. Or youre going behind your moms back to make out with this person. I'm sure there is a logical reason and once you find it you can feel better while kissing your boyfriend♥

Answer 11

most likely because it is all new to you, as this is your first boyfriend.  Once you get more comfortable with things, it will change.

=]

Answer 12

Don't worry your mom did it to when she was younger. And if you care for him than there is nothing wrong with it.But remember to always be yourself and follow your heart. Believe in yourself and listen to yourself and you will know if you need to slow down or if you are fine. I agree with keeping your virginity till you are married and don't get married to early either!:)Hang in there:):):)

Good luck.