Know its not the right section, if you've ever been bullied plz tel me how you recovered?

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I know its not the right section, if you've ever been bullied plz tel me how you recovered?

Hey plz make sence of this for me. ok i was bullied in primary school, not too sure why.?

it felt like my fault anyway. now ive finished, high school and college, both of which were h**l. in school i was fine except one "friend" who would tel me off constantly and keep putting me down seemed to everyone else as a nice person and if ever i said anything to her i was thought of as the one being awkward. evan now if i ever see her around i feel intimidated by her to the extent that i feel depressed all day, sometimes for longer. any way.. in college i was an easy target for people, if they had no one to pick on it would be me. it seemed as though they used me as a conversation starting point to sort of have a ***** bond between them. i became very quiet in college and have stayed so ever since i cant say anything mean to anyone even for revenge incase i make someone feel the way that i do. so people can get away with pretty much anything they do to me. why am i a target like this?

i am 21 now not a kid anymore. but can be intimidated by a 16 year old girl and she takes full advantage of it. she can make sure i dont turn up to a gathering within our community. i dont socialise at all anymore i only talk to people in my family that i have known since i was born. all of this i s influencing my behaviour so much. i easily get angry, never forgive anyone for evan the smallest of things. and generally feel depressed though i can put on a non depressed front on most of the time now as i have grown up with this feeling. it is severely affecting my life, i dropped out of university because of this and now wont even get a job. please help me.

i realise i just need to move on from my past but along with that i need a new frame of mind other wise ill be in the same situation over and over as i have been in the past. what can i do to sort this?

i dont really want counselling it'll probably go down as im a psycho or something and im not!!! i dont want it on my record at all.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

i got close to the bully's friends and told them to tell her to stop

sometimes id not go to school or where the bully's where.

i told teachers.

i just made the biggest fuss ever so everyone knew about it, i didn't feel ashamed at all.

Answer 3

ive been bullied for being small which when i was in junior and infant school everyone liked it and everyone wanted to be my buddy when i moved up to junior school but the few people who had a problem with it i just ignored stand up to bullies or they will always get you down

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Answer 4

I used to get bullied really badly,    

Just ignore the person that intimidates you.

Get back to your life, go back to uni,  and socialize, No-one Will think your a Physco.  

Your 21.  Stand Up For Your Self.  

Answer 5

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