L SWEAR MY OLDER SISTER HATES ME!?

Question

today i told my older sis (19) that my mom wouldnt buy me this tote purse, its 15 dollars, (i dont have 15 dollars,) and my sis went OFF ON ME!

she was saying, omg your in 8th grade, you need to stop relying off of mom and dad and do this kinda S**t your self.

my reply was that, im ONLY in the 8th grade, and if i had the money, i would get one.

(im too young for a job in hte state of ohio, but i do have one starting in the spring after my birthday!)

so on and on we went,

then she got ticked when i called her a hypocrite,

(she lives at home, mom and dad fill her tank, she pays no effing rent, and what do you know IM THE ONE THET RELIES ON MOM AND DAD!?!?!!?

h**l NO!

(btw, we live in the middle of no where, so i cant just walk to the store to buy it, i have like a 45 minute drive.)

Answer 1

I know that this may sound difficult, but just try to avoid her when you feel that she is in a bad mood. There's nothing that you can do to try and change her, just the same as how she can't change how you act. My sister and I don't really get along either. I usually just vent to my friends, or do something that helps me to vent my anger, and I feel better.  

Answer 2

Your mom does not have to buy you everything you want.

I would have been mad too if my little sister (who is also in 8th grade) came and told me that our mom wouldn't buy her a purse.

Answer 3

So you're both spoiled.

Answer 4

its ok, im 15 too, and i used to get the exact same issues as you and your sister. a couple months ago, when i still lived with my 18 year old sister, i used too think she hated me, but she doesnt. i dont hink you spoiled, if you dont have 15 dollars then ur not spoiled. but i can tell u ur sister deffenetly doesnt hate u, she loves you, just like every sister has to, but she may sometimes be exasperated with you, and i know how annoying it is when a older sister tells you you rely on mom and dad, even though she does to, its very hiypocritical buit unfortunatly not something you can fix by having a big fight about it. actually, my sister used to rely on mom for everything, when mom cut her off and she started stealing my stuff and i swear i was readdy to kill her but then i figured, there is really nothing left to do. i feel very bad for you, because i know how hard it is to be the second child, or the younger and 'weaker' one. so many times i was sure my older sister hated me, but she didnt.

i also get how your sisters attitude can make you angry enough to write about it over the internet, believe me, i understand. but there's not much you can do about it. try a new thing, unstead of yelling, tell her flat out you're sick of her treating you like a peace of c**p and that you want her to stop acting as though you are the spoiled one who rely's on mom and dad, tell her that if she doesnt like the fact that you want a cheap bag then she should think twice about the fact that her parents are paying the rent before yelling at you. tell her this very calmly so that she sees that you are the mature one!

good luck!!!! hang in there, xoxo

Answer 5

Hm... well, you can't always have everything you want, you know. But your sister really shouldn't have acted like that. I wonder... was she working already when she was in eighth grade...?  

Answer 6

Tell her to move out...

She is Pmsing.

Answer 7

my brother whos 17 always complains that my parents give me money to help around the house a lot.

but theyyy pay his 400$ car insurence every month !

dont you hate it?! i cant stand itttt

Answer 8

Just go up to her and slap her. It'll solve everything.

Answer 9

That is such a small thing for everyone to get worked up about.  Maybe sis has some drama happening in her life that she just took out on you.  And i live in the middle of no where and have to drive an hour to a gallon of milk LOL.

Answer 10

whats the question?