LADIES, do you think that it is OK for a WOMAN to go back to her MAN after a "break up " ?

Question

Mine did. My exgirlfriend was in an abusive relationship. And she did

not talk to me for 3 months on the phone or email. But the word got

back to me, the she really wants to get out of her bad relationship

with this oppressive man. But does not know how. On Monday she

added me as a contact on Yahoo Answers, once again. Although she

did not say anything, she did let me see her questions. And I tell you,

this woman has a ton of problems in her life. So now she may want

me back. What do I do ? She is depressed, and is in a bind. What

do you think about women who go back to their ex's after being with

another man ?

Answer 1

Wise men say this: If you don't already have a trouble, don't go about buying one.

Common sense says that you help friends not ex-friends. At best you will become a rebound for a while. Its alright to move ahead.  

Answer 2

She doesn't need a boyfriend, she needs a friend.  She obviously trusts you which makes you an excellent candidate.  If you think you can be her friend, do that.  If not, probably best not to torture yourself.    

Answer 3

When I first read the main question, I thought, h**l yeah! Thats how me and my fiance are stronger than ever...BUUUUTT....and thats a bg BUT, if she has issues, turn away. RUN away. I had issues and I knew it (I was my own abuser, however, no one else lol). So thats why I took a break. Didn't want my guy to have to deal with that and have it tear us apart forever. This is what will happen to you if you let her back in. If she can't get away from this guy and stand on her own two feet and try life from a different perspective, you won't be able to save her any better. And it's kind of a messy situation anyway. But do you love her? If you truly love her...whatever.

Answer 4

Sure, if she really loves him. I don't date so I just put myself out of these situations automatically.  

Answer 5

Hey, it's great she's out of that creep's life however don't go setting yourself up for another heartache.

Answer 6

If I were you, I'd help her get out of her relationship. Encourage her to leave. But don't start a relationship with her right away. After what she's been through, she'll need time to heal before getting serious about you again.

This is to protect yourself as much as it is about her. It could be that any feelings rekindled for you on her part is because she's in danger and you're her rescuer. Once the danger is passed, maybe her spark for you will not be there.

Once she's safely out of her bad relationship, then maybe see what happens over time.

Answer 7

IT THE BEST CHOICE IN OTHER TO RECORRECT WAT WENT WRONG AND SEE IF REUNION CAN WORK.