LADIES: Is it always better that he love you more than you love him?

Question

LADIES: Is it always better that he love you more than you love him?

Answer 1

YES

Answer 2

i have heard it before and do agree with it. of course i love my husband unconditionally but you always need to protect yourself.

Answer 3

I am not sure about that but it would be good for me if he did.  

Answer 4

i dont really care.  

atleast he loves mee. :)

Answer 5

It would be better for YOU if he loved you more than him because it might give you the upper hand in the relationship. He has more feelings invested; therefore, more to lose.

Answer 6

i dont think so

what's really important is to have good affection from both sides and to have mutual respect, trust and understanding.

Sleeping with the enemy for Julia Roberts had a psycho man who loved her way more than she loved him. It ended up in a crime.

Answer 7

No,, never heard of that, its absurd.

Answer 8

If one person loves more than the other...that person eventually gets hurt...

Answer 9

You should love each other unconditionally -it's not a competition!  

Answer 10

I would say equal.  I wouldn't want him to love me more or me to love him more.

Answer 11

I really don't think that love can be measured like that

Answer 12

It really depends. I was in a few relationships before that the guy loves me a lot more than I did to him. I didn't like the feeling of the man being too clingy, and I eventually hurt them a lot more in the end. But now I'm in a relationship that I love my bf more than he loves me, which is very hard too, because of insecurities and low self esteem. I want to say it's a lot better if it was equal, but that's hardly ever the case...

Answer 13

That's funny you write that. My mother always said make sure you find someone who loves you more than you love him. Granted you really can't measure love but I know my husband loves me more than I love him you can just tell and I'm fine with that.

Answer 14

My mother always told me that.

I have been married for 30 years and known my husband for 34 years.

Seems things change over time, used to be he loved me more now I think the tables may of turned a bit.

Still everything is all good.

It is great to say things should be equal but reality is something else.

Answer 15

That's what Grandma always said.

Answer 16

i think its equal.  

Answer 17

How can you measure love so precisely?

I don't think it's a good thing to start feeling that one of you loves the other "more".  

Answer 18

I think that love between a couple like that should be unconditional and I dont think that love can be measured.  You either do or you dont.

Answer 19

no its an equal process that should be that way because in a relationship if someone feels more stronger then the other it doesnt balance and you cant let the other know how u feel cuz dey dont feel the same so make sure before letting your feelings out u r both on the same page