LADIES ONLY: How do I convince my wife that it would be better for our s*x life is she shaved?

Question

I mean shave her crotch (not just trim). She shaved herself completely several yrs ago, but won't anymore, as she says its too sensitive and itchy, but I like going down and giving oral, except when the hair gets in the way its a turn-off. I wonder how many women today actually shave themselves down there and are advocates of it and how many still don't shave down there and continue to have good s*x lives?

Answer 1

well just tell her convest don`t leave any thing out

Answer 2

i agree with susan but i shave periodically. like every 2 months or so. that way it'll be a surprise and wont hurt as much. i heard if u continue to shave it wont irritate but i dont know good luck and happy munchin!!! lol

Answer 3

ask her to try it offer to pay for a wax that makes it not itch and the bumps go away faster tell her if she still doesn't like it then she can just let it grow back

Answer 4

make a deal. if you shave yours she'll shave hers.

Answer 5

my man just told me that he couldnt continu cause the hairs were a turn off, and then we decided to shave the same day and we saw that s*x was so muchbetter so, just ask her to do it once and see how betetr it is for both of you,  

Answer 6

I can see why you would want her to shave. To me personally I don't see how a woman wouldn't want to shave. It just feels cleaner that way. I mean you can tell her how you feel and I'm sure she would understand, but it wouldn't hurt to add in that she would most likely feel better if she did shave. For one thing having no hair can help in keeping your v****a healthy. I know it sounds strange, but ask her to try it out.

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oh yeah and about the bumps and itchy-ness from shaving tell her to try a cream like Nair.

that's what I use and I think it's a lot more painless than shaving or waxing.

Answer 7

tell her you think it's hotttt if she is shaved.

you shouldn't be asking strangers because thats kind of personal, why don't you just talk to her about it? tell her how you feel and that you don't like giving oral if she has hair.

and threaten not to give her oral s*x anymore, she'll probably run to the bathroom and start shaving right away, haha.

but no seriously, talk to her! i'm sure you guys will agree on something.

and everyones different,

some men actually have a fetish for a hairy woman, in the "Crotch area"....i know, gross =/

Answer 8

i shave down there tell her in a nice way

dont say it in a rude way she might get offended

Answer 9

tell her as kind as you can, casually drop hints, explain to her what you want from her, don't push her, gently nudge. My freinds shave an so do i, most people do otherwise they feel dirty during s*x

Answer 10

Shaving is uncomfortable for some, and it can cause ingrown hairs. Offer to pay for her to have a brazilian wax,,,,,,and maybe you can trim up too, Great luck to you.  

Answer 11

I'll tell you a secret.  The best thing you can do in this situation is for YOU to shave her.  Make it very s**y like.  I hope you shave because we like that to ya know.  It can be very itchy though.

Answer 12

IT'S SENSITIVE AND ITCHY! Listen to what she is saying. Giving her oral may be better for you if shes shaved but isn't the whole point for her pleasure? She can't enjoy it when she is sore from shaving. Many guys don't understand that some girls have different skin types than others and it hurts!

Answer 13

I shave mine completely off, and yea, I think s*x feels better when we are BOTH bare down there! Tell her to try using hair conditioner to shave, instead of shaving cream, and always use a newer razor....and not a disposable razor!  

Answer 14

i shave mine completly off! but if your wife is not comfortable with doing that dont make her but i like it like that