LADIES!!!WOULD U LET UR PARTNER?

Question

Would u let ur partner move 2 another country while u stayed in another country?I trust my partner100%, trouble is i don't know if i trust his friends.I might be little biased here but, he is a real nice looking guy.He has girls flirting and coming on to him on a regular bases. he say's he doesnt do anything , but i have been with hjim when he has flirted back(even when i'm not with him and they come on/ flirt with him, he tells me in a way that a guy says things to make you feel jealous). When we first met his friends and some of his family didn't want us to be together,cause of my culture.

Over the last few months i found out that he had dumped his previous girlfriend by moving to another city/town.If he could do that to her, whats stopping me from thinking that he could do the exact same thing to me?

Ever since we decided to move to this country, he has been distant,and doesn't seem to be interested anymore.

SORRY FOR THE LOOONG SOUNDING DRAMAS?

But that is the question i am putting to u.Knowing all these things, would you let your partner move to another country without you?

Answer 1

I think that's his way of breaking up with girls. moving to another place. and if you say hes very good looking and he flirts, then maby he found someone else he likes, or he's just bored with you or something. and you are right if he did that to the other girl then he's going to do that to you too. there is nothing stopping him from it. so be smart and just let him go and find someone for yourself. someone who is worth your time, someone who appreciates you. good luck =]

Answer 2

Be careful. I find distance makes some hearts grow apart easily.

Answer 3

1st off I don't think you can prevent him from moving if he wants to...

2nd if you are asking this question you probably know the answer in your heart.. which is that mostly likely he's trying to dump you by moving.  Usually guys work in patterns so if he did that before it's highly likely he's gonna do that again!!

Sorry.

Answer 4

uhm the fact you said partner and not husband then yes b.c your not married its not really any of your bussiness what he does

Answer 5

I couldn't, but I don't like long distant relationships, let him go, he might find out how truly special you are, and come home really quick! It's about letting him be himself, and let him find himself  in this world. If you truly love someone then you have to let them do their thing, otherwise you'll just drive them away. I know, my husband just started truck driving over the road, and he's gone for long periods of time, and this month has not been easy, but I have to let him find himself, even if it means that I'm not in the picture. I love him and he loves me and I have to just realize that and accept it. Let Go and Let God!!! Hope this helps!!!

Answer 6

No. Even despite the things you have mentioned I wouldn't let my partner move out of the country and I hope he would object to me moving too. Long distance does not really work. sooner or later it wont work out. If you want to be with him, ask him not to do it. Plain and simple.

Answer 7

Nope :( Sorry chick but sounds like a totally bad idea!

But then again you might not be able to stop him or persuade him otherwise!

Good luck and I hope it all works out for you

DrLou---x

Answer 8

na i would not let him move because in a matter of time he mite stop thinking about ya and maybe some nite he mite do the dirth that my opinion like but every 1 is different

Answer 9

hi there ,

I personally would find difficult living without my boyfriend ( long distance relationship )  and even more wouldnt trust him. For one its hard for him to stay away from girls if he is on his own , he would have to think about you being back in the country where you are out of respect wheather on not to get with another girl , and i dont think man have time for that thay go for the prey. i would also think it will apply for you , if you saw a hot handsome man while your guy is away would you be able to walk pass him????? Well i wouldnt. i would finish with my boyfried if thats the case and move on.