LGBT I really need your help please? ?

Question

Okay, I'm not asking this to fish for compliments or anything really I just really want to know. I feel really unattractive and ugly and I don't know what to do to with myself. I mean I know I'm not down right ugly but I feel unattractive & I feel fat..Any ideas on what to do to make myself feel better & look better?

Pics of me

http://i508.photobucket.com/albums/s322/tonyaswartz369/beforeyearbook.jpg [new one just took today]

http://i508.photobucket.com/albums/s322/tonyaswartz369/bonus001-1.jpg [older one like a month or so old]

so am I really that ugly & fat like I think I am?

Answer 1

i think your pretty... i would say to grow out you hair.. with your pretty blue eyes... you should!!

ummm.... your pretty average... but i would think you need to loose 5 pounds.... but thats my opinion

Answer 2

I don't think you are ugly at all. I do agree that a longer hairstyle would suit you better though.

Smile girl, a frown can be very uninviting to ppl. =)

Answer 3

Here's my thought -- what do you want?  What is it in your life now that makes you happy?  Start with what you makes you happy and go from there.  Great advice and some "honest" opinions from everyone which will help in any case and situation but you must decide where to start.  Your pictures are good and if you think your fat,  please, honey I started at 460 lbs and you are not fat.

Answer 4

oh silly girl you're beautiful.

Just stop parting your hair in the middleeee hahah  bangs? yeah =) told ya i wanted to be a cosmetologist.  

Answer 5

Looks aren't beautiful, it's confidence that's beautiful. Embrace who you are.

If you really want a change, try putting on some makeup. Maybe some mascara and a little foundation & blush with a little eyeliner on the top. Blow out your hair, I don't know if it's the picture or not but it looks a tad greasy. I don't think you need to lose weight at all.  

Answer 6

I wont lie, I find you attractive. For some reason most everyone finds them self unattractive. Though many clothing lines, stereotypes, and beauty magazines encourages such unrealistic beauty, I belive they produce low self-a-steam for woung women today.

Me being a man, I do find weight on a women more attractive then seeing her bones. I don't mean huge, I mean some fat is okay. h**l, were supposed to have fat. Though I agree it is hard to keep it off in a society today, where fattening foods are the most affordable.

If you really want to make your self attractive, you should prize your self. Don't be one of those girls who show off everything they have, and have no self respect. Dress nice, but conservative. A nice skirt with a cute tank top. Maybe a nice fluffy shirt with some nice jeans.

Don't let anyone call you unattractive, but let them criticies you nicely if they are your friend. I would die if I dident have my friends tell me what I do and dont look good in.

Answer 7

i think you need a better haircut. and color. hun, seriously. get a good hair cut that breaks up the one length monotony, get your face framed with layers and get some good low lights and highlights. from the pick you DO NOT look fat!!! k. so chill. just a nice haircut will do a woman good.

EDIT: this may of came out rude but i had NO intentions of that.

Answer 8

wear some eyeliner ittl make ur eyes beautiful

awnser mine

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 9

awww.youre not ugly. try eyeliner. it will bring out your eyes. lol and maybe a hair but. that wont hurt right?

hugs.hope work isnt a pain like it is fore me. haha

Answer 10

Girl, you are very cute and natural looking just the way you are. I love your freckles. Honestly, I don't think you should change a thing. :-)

Answer 11

You're not ugly at all! Confidence is key. :]

But, I agree. A new haircut would suit you more.  

Answer 12

  I think you are being overly critical of your looks  

Answer 13

You're pretty!

And you have beautiful blue eyes :)

Answer 14

Youre pretty, however, i would recommend changing the hairstyle.  Maybe curlier and with some color would look nice. And youre not fat at all, youre completely normal