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LIFE! i dont undestand it. why is it so hard?

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am i being punished?

when things seem to be going perfect, why does something always go wrong?

IS LIFE SUPPOSED TO BE SO HARD???

why can u not trust anyone in this world?

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It's the Ying and Yang effect. life is exactly what you make it so I suggest you make some changes
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I find that when you are not focused life seems hard.

As soon as you have a passion to lock on to everything seems to go from strength to strength.

You need to find something you have a passion for and put all your energy into it. If you really believe in it things WILL go amazingly well for you.

I was feeling down, I started to make a magazine with a friend and now everyday just gets better. Unbelievable things happen when you believe in yourself. You will notice it I'm sure. Things will just start to go right.

Hope that helps...
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I suppose you're having a hard life because I'm having an easy one, and the law of averages rules the world. ;-)

Or maybe it's just that you're being punished for naughty things you did in a previous life? Tut tut.

"why can u not trust anyone in this world?"

Because you can't. That's a valuable lesson to learn: people will always let you down. If you assume that, you won't go far wrong. Look out for your own interests.
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No one understands life. You just have to be grateful you are alive. And stop feeling sorry for yourself.
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If you are having a hard time today - tomorrow is another day to look forward to
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this happens all the time. you just got to learn to deal with it. things always get better.
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why is it so hard?

life is not only hard. it is also d**n complicated. life is a game. it is a system. what makes it so hard is we're already too old to know the rules.

am i being punished?

sometimes i think of that too. partly my life is hard is because of the wrong decisions I made in my life. what decisions? like making good grades. work like a dog in the office.

when things seem to be going perfect, why does something always go wrong?

i treat life as a riddle. most of the times i asked myself, what will be the next screwup in my life? what else could go wrong?

why can u not trust anyone in this world?

yes. you cannot trust anyone in this world. why? because they doesn't care! they wouldn't care if you die today. people are selfish creatures. they only care of the things that they can get and not of the things that they can give. the best person you can really trust in this world is yourself.
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You know, I have thought about Life like you.  I would like to  tell you one legend. The beautiful cup told me-

I was a piece of  clay and one day the man took me and started to beat me, I was in pain. Then he put me on  a rotating disc  and grabbed me painfully. Then he put me in an oven- I was crying and screaming with pain. AFter plenty of trouble he put me on the table and said- now you are beautiful and needed , as you have to be for Life and for your future.

So, I understand, that all problems which I have had in my life made me- just as I am today. Some trouble was like lessons, how I have to behave and how I haven't . Some events put me in pain and my soul became stronger. Some  problems had taught me to be more kind to people, children and animals.

Be courageous and Life will appreciate your patience and will thank you.

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Yes, life is supposed to be hard. Our mission in this world is to get through life without falling apart. When things get tough, look at the bright side. Be happy to be alive. Life has many obstacles. Its our job to avoid them and learn from our mistakes. =]
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If my experience is good enough as an answer for you, I don't know.

I have never really been successful, but I understand that the majority of my decisions were emotionally fuelled.

Now that I am more rational, things slowly start 2 turn around for the better. Not only for me, also for all the people I have to deal with. Communication has become much more effective and that is very important to keep on track and to overcome obstacles of any kind. By communication do I mean not only fellow human beings, but also what I am telling myself about others and the world.
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Life is hard. I believe it's meant to be that way, sadly. Though our life is usually a struggle, there are many things that you can do to reduce the worry and concerns that also bring you down. Eg, I turned off my TV a month ago, cancelled my licence and rendered my TV unworkable. The last month of my life has been the best month for many years. I still read the headlines on the 'net' and possibly the first paragraph, so I still know what's happening in the world; yes america really is trying to take over the planet and they have a magic word they use to convince people that what they are doing is not the genocidal evil act that it is. That word is 'Terrorism'. They just use their magic word and they can do anything they want. People cannot see what is really occurring because the TV ensures that they never find out. Life is actually quite hard, but the mass media make it a lot harder. Remove the mass media from your life and you will feel much much better within days; that is a fact!
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It's what is know as living life, you have learn how to take the bad as well as the good, remember if you are having it hard, there is always some one who is having it harder than you, so be thank full of your lot, things can only get better.
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this happens to everyone. it sucks i know but things will get better :D
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