Im 25,we met when I was 23, and he 21.
I was always the type to never follow what anyone did,my heart had been broken a few times, so i just never cared to trust anyone.Everyone still always says how beautiful I am, I dont feel beautiful,i hate my life,i hate the way things turned out, i hate that i was so stupid, i hate that this happened to me!
After constantly and constantly telling me to trust him that he was different and ETC.I finally decided to give him a chance, and i did fall in love with him,it wasnt long though b4 i started seeing signs of a player/dawg,azzhoe.
but too late,i already loved him
he said we'd be together,be a family, he wanted a baby, and i gave him that.
I couldnt even rely on him to help me financially while i was on maternity leave,he walked out when she was a few weeks,he always would come back though,yes dumb me, i would let him, still i loved him.
its been a while now, she's fifteen months,he's always come and gone.funny how he even says he wants another baby, we arent even together today,why impregnant someone and have more than one kid with them just to have them be raised on welfare or something?
no, im not on any assistance, i take care of mine, everything i have is because i work for it, but still if i keep making the same ignorant mistakes it wont be long till i am on some program.
I love my daughter will all my heart,we have a house, a car,my mom watches her while i work full time.i dont really care for my job, but i have bills to pay. I am so envious of all the sahms' out there, i wish i could belong to a family where my husband supported me, and our children.
honestly, i wish he would get knocked over the head and get hit with a dose of reality, and he would step up and do the right thing.
he's her father, i dont want anyone else playing her father role.
i love him still, i do, i hate that i love him, i hate that we go thru this. but why is it so hard to just get it together???
ive never done him wrong, never ever.
why are men like this? (okay some women are too) but in my case im asking why are men like this? cause i have never met a good guy! i honestly never have, and as beautiful, (not trying to sound conceited really im not.) but people always tell me how beautiful i am.
Well u know what? i feel like a black spider,im not happy at all. sometimes i just want to just scratch myself, just cut myself, or make myself look ugly, give me scars that appear outside, because i have so many of them inside, no one knows, no one has the least clue about how much i hate myself right now, how ugly i feel. how unattracted and unwanted.i know its because i make him so important in my life, and i shouldnt, i know that. but how do i stop? How can i forget about someone, i cant go an hour without thinking about? a think about him a million times a day!last thing at night, and first thing in the morning! I dont know what to do?
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