Lack of a sexual vibe?

Question

Lack of a sexual vibe?

Why do men get angry with women who don't give off a sexual vibe? I ask this bc I've had men who have actually confronted me about this!!

I find this extremely offensive...but I never show this bc I don't want most of these men thinking about me in this manner. (I'll let the guy know I'm interested if I am...very picky.)

Since when has it been necessary to have to do so?? Are these just classless men who think this way?

Maybe the lady is NOT attracted to you!

Answer 1

You mean random guys just tell you that you have no s*x appeal? I would be upset and not allow that.

Answer 2

more stupid cosmo bull ****

Answer 3

you are right! I think some men think if they put the effort in they should be able to get anything they want including people.

Answer 4

I could understand if your in a relationship and your partner always seems cold, but if there is nothing going on then ??????

    

        They just sound like "players" your better off to avoid those kinds of people.

Answer 5

I only get upset with mixed signals.

If she gives me a vibe then the next day goes cold shoulder I get irritated. Sometimes its me misinterpreting the vibe but I have had a couple of occassions where I though we were getting on real well then she's suddenly just downright rude to me.

It's a turnoff

But yea you're absolutely right about those who just expect these vibes, its not an entitlement. You should be the one deciding to who and when you give them

Answer 6

They are just trying to look for a quick root dont worry about it  

Answer 7

Wow, I can't even imagine that.  What do you do walk around in trash bags?  I have never met any man like this.  Of course they state the obvious of a homely woman, but I know of none...other than some high school punk teasing some high school girl...that would even think about "confronting" the woman.

Answer 8

Maybe you were giving mixed signals. I have many female friends who I don't have sexual vibes with, it has never caused a problem. If this continues to happen to you, maybe you should investigate your contribution as why it might be happening.

Yes, give me thumbs down, that's fine.

My BS detector is going off and it sounds like to me that this girl is irresponsible.

Just my opinion.

Answer 9

I don't think we have to give off a sexual vibe to every single male, nor should we have to endure someone being angry because we do not.  I better stop at that, lol.  I think you are justified to ask this question.