Ladies, Anyone had this problem before?

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I got pregnant with my daughter a little over 3 years ago. Before I got pregnant I had a very high s*x drive and could climax with my bf very easily. As soon as got pregnant that changed. Now my drive is very low compared to what it was and it very difficult for me to climax. I am still with the same guy. Has anyone else had this problem? How do you fix it??

Answer 1

your hormones may be out wack since having your child. you could try looking to see if there are stressors that prevent you from totally fulfilling your needs and if not that then look at maybe retraining your body do what is needed.

you also may look at being low in vitamins. if you are totally at a loss then see your doctor.

Answer 2

I had that problem and still do.  I don't know how to fix it.  I have taken ginseng, and motivator drugs(over the counter, not drugs).  I think after we have children the hormone levels don't go back to normal.  Part of my problem is medicine and physical disability now but I don't know what it was before.  Have you tried thinking about the way you felt the first time you had s*x or the first time he told you he loved you.  That worked for me for a while.

Answer 3

i kinda have the same problem. if you know how to fix it please let me know too:)

Answer 4

Lol, yes! I think everyone goes through this, but the reasons vary. I went through this with my marriage, but I'm divorced. We just had too many problems. I'm engaged, been together for 2 years, completely in love, and I just want it every day.

Having kids does tear you down some. Now you need to figure out if this low s*x drive is something that can't be helped but only by a doctor, and there is always troubleshoot. Of course, this isn't all of the questions to figure out, but here's some. Maybe there are problems in the relationship? One of you is not happy? Maybe you need to find a way to spice up your s*x life, sometimes you're just bored with the same actions/movements that have become routine? You may not feel s**y?

Next, you change other things. Healthier meals, walking, spending more or less time together, get yourself a makeover (pro or do it yourself). There is always the mental way... just making yourself do it and end up enjoying it. Good luck.

Answer 5

You horny little freak!!!  Let me play with your b***s!