Ladies, has a boyfriend or husband ever cheated on you?

Question

If so, what did you do? Who did he do it with? How did you find out?

Answer 1

True story I swear... When I was 16 I "fell in love" with my first serious boyfriend. After about a year of being together we started having problems but we never broke up. We also worked at the same Italian restaurant with about 10 of our closest friends. One night I was working the cash register and one of the girls I worked with came in crying. I asked her what was wrong and she said "Justin (my boyfriend) Fing**** Jenny last night and I was making out with him two nights ago and he said I have no right to be upset because we are not going out." I looked her in the eye and said "We are still together you whor*!" So I confronted him, dumped him and to get back at him started going out with our mutual best friend Mike that night. Justin begged me to forgive him and come back to him for about a week. I wouldn't. So I got called down to the office at school for a "peer mediation" session. He cried and begged and I still wouldn't go back with him so he left the room, went down to his counselors office and dropped out of school. He said he couldn't go to school if he had to see me and Mike together. The worst part? He went to my house when he left and told my mom everything, and I mean EVERYTHING!!!! The sick part? Me and Mike decided we couldn't date each other a week later. Justin is still hasn't finished school. Its really sad.

Answer 2

you know the majority of the people obsessive if there partner is cheating are often cheating on there partner.

Answer 3

I had a boyfriend who cheated on me when I graduated HS, and it devastated me. I found out through his friends, and confronted him. It was bad.

My ex-husband is something I'm honestly not sure about, but I had my suspicions. He went out every Friday night and stayed out until about 4am, and wouldn't return my calls or texts to make sure that he was alright. That's all I'd say, just let me know you are OK. You don't even have to tell me where you are or who you're with, just let me know you are OK. He didn't even do that.

I'll never know, but my heart says my instincts are right. :(

I agree Kris, and there were times when I wanted to stray, but I never acted on it. I don't want to accuse my ex of something that may never have happened, but those times he wouldn't let me know he was ok by 3am got me reeling. I just didn't know.

Answer 4

In my case, it was mutual cheating. First, he met me and asked me out already having  two other girlfriends without telling me. Then, I flirted with my friend on the phone. When I told him, he yelled at me for 3 hours then told me what he did just so he could hurt my feelings. By then, I was so angry that I wasn't hurt at all.

We tried to make it work for 2 months. I eventually gave up on it.

I am against dead end relationship since that experience.

Answer 5

I had an ex that I suspected cheated on me, I could never prove it but he left work early and went to her house to "get a hair cut".  The relationship was going sour and we were going different directions (he wanted the military life I wanted to go to college and have a family)  and it was just the straw that broke the camels back.

He dated her for a couple weeks then another girl whom he married and most likely cheated on while in Iraq.  He came back, got divorced and put lots of pictures of him and her in Iraq together (both are military) on his MySpace page.

Answer 6

to my knowledge my husband has never cheated on me, but if I found out he did I would leave him in a heart beat and he knows it!! I am not like alot of the girls I know who just deals with it because"it makes the relationship stronger". s***w that, an drive yourself crazy always wondering if it will happen again, or if you'll get aids that way!! h**l No, if I ever find out it happened, is happening,or even walking in or finding out before it happened I will stop the relationship then and there. It will hard and painful but in the long run worth it. NO WOMAN DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE THEY ARE WORTHLESS.

Answer 7

Yes.  Asked him what was going on.  His female co-worker.  I walked in on them together on the lounge after I returned early from a netball match.

it happens

Answer 8

I know of someone who not only had a husband cheat on her, but he did it in her home, in her bed.  She found out when she came home early from work to surprise her husband, but she is the one that got the surprised.  They are no longer together and he never comes to visit his daughter.  She has never been able to trust a man after that, suffice it to say, she has been single ever since. =S