Ladies, is a man who is kind, dependable, and a good listener, considered attractive? ?

Question

I thought tall dark and rugged was it. What do you think?

Answer 1

well those are nice qualities but you dont want to just be friend material

or just to nice (*****) not girl wants to be with a *****

sorry

Answer 2

No... mostly not. You can't be a guy and go look for an ugly girl, but the looks don't matter. What counts is whats on the inside. So if your nice, funny, and intelligent, a girl will fall for you.

Answer 3

i like men who are complete a******s...

:|

Answer 4

Only if he has a $100 Bill in his hand...

Answer 5

Kindness, dependability, and good listening skills are actually mandatory when it comes to me selecting a partner!  Those are definately attractive qualities.

Every female is attracted to different things.  For example I'm short and have dark hair as opposed to the supposed tall/blonde thing but I have no problem getting whatever guy I want.

Actually my mother said to me once that she prefers shorter slim guys, as she's short.  I still have a thing for tall guys, but I'm kind of sub.  If I fell in love with someone who was short though I wouldn't pass it up.

Also I thought I only liked dark haired males and ended up finding a really awesome and beautiful person who happened to be blonde, but again that didn't stop me (and every other female who's been lucky enough to share company with this person) from getting mad turned on by him.

I hope that puts things in perspective!

edit:  don't listen to "Girlly", be a sweetheart, that's how you'll attract the nicest girls.  I only want to be sweet to my partner and I only want a partner who's sweet to me!  Don't worry about the "*****" stereotype, nice does not mean weak.  I like my men strong but sensitive and kind, and I think a lot of other females do too!

Answer 6

well,there are different girls.but the girls are sensitive think its really attractive.

Answer 7

NO

Men should be mean, unreliable, and horrible listeners.

Sarcasm.

Answer 8

no it's not

Answer 9

To me, h**l yes. I wish i could find a guy like that. I don't like all those hollister & A&F guys, they're such tools. A nice, honest guy who will listen to me would be great : ]

Answer 10

extremely !

Answer 11

yes i think they are well it all depends wat that girl is looking for

Answer 12

Yes to women who have already gone through chasing hot men and getting rejected thereafter, usually after a few kids, a divorce or life experience. A man is a provider, tough, cool and nows when to play gentle, dependable and when to listen.

Answer 13

Of course!!!! But along with a bit of good looks, lol. A kind, dependable, and a good listener is almost wanted in every dream man. Good Luck.

Answer 14

Attractive is handsome in my definition.

If you want to know if a man who is responsable appeals

to a woman, to some yes.

Others, no.

Answer 15

well depends whether he's got a mischevious streak to him, i like a man who can be a bit cheeky and have fun as well as those things. And for those bitter/synical guys who think all women are after their money some of us earn very good money ourselves not to need yours!

Answer 16

I THINK IT DEPENDS WHAT THE LADIES LIKE,MYSELF I LIKE SOME1 WHO'LL LISTEN 2 ME AND KIND,BUT I ALSO LIKE THE RUGGED LOOK ON SOME GUYS.

Answer 17

Those are attractive qualities. And you can be all of the above and tall and dark and rugged, but none of it makes a man automatically "attractive."

Answer 18

yes, yes, yes, tall dark and handsome breaks your heart and that is considered very unattractive, plus they are not kind, dependable and a good listner they are too busy with their looks

Answer 19

i like a guy who would love me the way i am and not say like she is ugly or fat.

Answer 20

Yes, but that doesn't mean that every woman will find that person a potential mate.  

"I thought tall dark and rugged was it."

I think you'd have better luck if you stopped worrying about stereotypical ideals and dealt with women individually.

Answer 21

yes its a different type of attractive but different people look for different things in a man. looks arent everything

Answer 22

For personality yes, those are awesome traits, but you should be attractive physically as well or have some thing that you excel at even if its just how you make the girl feel.

It also depends on age of individuals..

Answer 23

Personal Preference:

sense of humor

kind

dependable

good listener

treats women w/ respect

shows an emotional side

not shy to say things out loud

= Perfect Guy.... *kisses Cheyenne*