Ladies, is it really possible to have a close guy friend...?

Question

without them liking you?

everytime i look up a friend always ends up different.

Answer 1

Of course it is, some of my best friends are guys and we have an amazing time together, even though almost all of them have girlfriends, just make sure that your not leading them on though, that would cause them to like you!

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Answer 2

It's possible..as long as there is NO attraction to each other. Which sometimes doesn't work because you may began to build attraction with someone after spending a lot of time together...

Answer 3

Mhmmm! I mean there's probably going to be some flirting going on, but not intentionally, trust me. I guess I flirt with my guy friends. If you don't want things to turn heated (as in romantically) just tell him in the beginning, "There shouldn't be anything between us." Just trust yourself. Good luck and I'm sure everything will be fine. =]

Answer 4

YES I THINK IT IS, ...........BUT ONLY IF YOU'RE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS FOR THIS PERSON. MAKE SURE THE PERSON KNOWS YOUR JUST FRIENDS

Answer 5

i dont think so. it might start out like that but over time feeling arise.

Answer 6

of course, the g**s

Answer 7

Yes, but it can be kind of hard sometimes.

Answer 8

yes, very much so. I have a guy friend I have known for over 12 years and its really cool. once you let the person know your only interested in a friendship and you stick to that.  you will meet some that will say one thing but do another but quickly get rid of them. and if you are attracted to him then no its not going to work b/c you may catch feelings.

Answer 9

Yes, it's really not that hard. But there's a lot of difference. Since you're female, and he is a male, you'll both have different interests, and you'll both want to talk about different subjects. So, for it to work out, you should be a girl who likes to spend time with guys & doesn't care if they talk about what they want rather than what she wants. He'll ignore you sometimes when he's with his friends, but that is what guys are like. It's simple & easy. I have a friend that I've known since I was four years old. I don't like him & he doesn't like me, it's just friendship. Plus it'd be weird if we start dating, we're like a brother & sister. You could make friends with a guy who likes another girl, it'll be better.

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Answer 10

YES!

It's definitely possible!

I have two of them.

One is STRICTLY a friend,

yet the second one is quite complicated.

I feel in love with him,

but he was in love with someone else,

and wanted me to wait.

I waited as long as I could,a

and have now found someone else,

and now he is saying that he wants to be with me,

it's quite CRAZY!

But the first example, Rocky, is

proof that one can still be friends with a guy!

Answer 11

yes,but you have to gauard your heart!!

Answer 12

Yes, it is possible.  

Answer 13

lol..

hmm.. yea if u rnt that guy's type :). like me and my friend (a boy, but not bf). he has got a gf anyway.. thats y i can feel safe if i be his friend. cuz he wont have crush on me ^^

Answer 14

yessssss

Answer 15

yes....

Answer 16

It depends, its a toughie because having a close friendship with someone from the opposite s*x (if you're heterosexual) can bring out deeper feelings, in one or the other or even both people.

I think it is possible but I think only if the two people are open and honest about how they feel and are sure its jus a platonic friendship that they would like.