Ladies, what do you do immediately to let a man know you're not interested?

Question

Especially if he hasn't stated his interest directly?

I ask this specifically for men who do not come out and tell you how they feel, but rather come up to you ALL the time, ask you questions about yourself, eventually makes passes, which leads you to realize they are interested.

I guess how do you deal with the men you meet initially who are passive aggressive while approaching you...

Ex, If you were to just state that you are "not interested," they say, "I wasn't trying!" Yet, they persistently come up to you, try to tease you, make passes, etc...

Answer 1

What's wrong with your example? It gets the job done. Oh I see, you want to make it HURT more. Get a life.

Answer 2

One word: IGNORE

Answer 3

shrug him off , definately DO NOT tell him anything personal about you or your life or else he'll think you like talking to him or that he's getting inside information about you.

Answer 4

Why do you think the average women will bring up the husband/ boyfriend within five mins of the first conversation with someone new.

Dont assume all men are hitting on you at all times, but if it's pretty clear just tell him your not interested politely really not that hard.

Answer 5

I either turn my back or give very short, toneless responses to their questions.

Answer 6

I can't tell off the bat that I don't like someone so I always try to talk a little and if it leads no where then I would let them know or slip into L*****n mode which is almost real. :)

Answer 7

I do nothing..

If they have not told me they are interested..I will pretend I do not know they are.

If they do tell me and I am not interested..The I will just let him down gently.

If he cannot take it maturely that is his problem..not mine. ( unless i am in a bad mood..then I would have to put him in his place.)

Answer 8

I flat out tell them that my husband has no problem telling him anything he wants to know about me, so go ask him.