Ladies, what would you do if you got this from a guy?

Question

I just want a girl's opinion on this is all, and please no cruel answers.

Over these past few weeks I've fallen in love with you. It used to be that I just liked you, but now I know deep down that I love you. I can't get you out of my head. I can't sleep, because everytime I close my eyes I see your face, and I think of you. I relive every second I've ever spent with, when I finally do manage to sleep. God only knows how many times I've gotten layed out at football practice because I was thinking about you and not what play I was supposed to be running. I don't know why I feel this way, but if I had to venture a guess it would be that I like you so much because you are so beautiful, and smart, and kind, and funny, and I can just tell you anything. However there is just one problem to all this. I'm wary of telling you these things because of how many times I've been hurt in the past. My heart can't take another blow like that. I'm afraid that if I ask you out and you say no then I won't ever be able to really love someone again. Despite having reservations though, I think that you are worth the risks. Now the question is am I worth the risks to you? You don't know how great it would be to have you as my girlfriend. I haven't been emotionally attached like that for two years now, and I think that it will be good for me to experience that again. I just ask this one favor, just tell me either way, because not knowing would hurt worse than you flat out rejecting me.

Answer 1

im a mothafaukin playa nicca mac 11 down ya throat an thats to spray a nicca

Answer 2

I'd be flattered and overwhelmed with all those things you are going to tell me. I might not be able to respond well, and most probably I would tell you that I have to reflect and think about what you said because I do not want to decide on the spur of the moment. Don't freak her out because this is too much to handle if you put her on the spot.

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Answer 3

thats really sweet!!!!  if i got that from a guy i would absolutely go out with him.  if thats your situation right now then i hope things turn out well!!

Answer 4

That would be so sweet!!!!!!!!!! I would run up to you and give you a big bear hug!!!!!!!!! Brownie points for having the guts to give this to her!

Answer 5

i would say go for it...its always better to pick the one who loves you as opposed to the one you love, if the feelings arent mutual. he seems like a nice guy...you should give him a shot...if you dont like him you can persuade him to break it off  

Answer 6

well that's a really sweet thing to say, but it also might freak her out. from what i get is that she has no idea you feel this way about her and just having you tell her all at once is kind of emotionally paralizing, you know? i would tell her face to face while on a walk or something, even though i know it would extremely hard, it 100% better than a letter or email..i think anyway. but in the letter, i would say; loose the extreme detail about loving her and such[ 90% chance that would totally freak her out] also i would lose the whole favor part and telling her turning you down would probably ruin your life is not a good plan , because its kind of telling her that if she says no you might die and iit would put A LOT of pressure on her so she would feel that he HAS to say yes . but that only my opinion , hope it works out for you good luck :)

Answer 7

I'm not trying to be funny when I say this, but when I read this, the first thing I said, was -----  "Ooh Baby"!!!  Man, that was awesome!  I seriously almost cried.

Answer 8

wow! that is SO SO SO sweet! i'd fall over heels for you if you ever said that to me, wow. go for it! good luck!

OMG! wow.

Answer 9

Rofl, don't get your hopes to high, but i jsut had this funny idea of some chick reading the first sentence and being like AH! and like running down some hgihschool hallway for a guy that wrote it. lololol

Answer 10

(You said girl. I got my sister to type this for you since she doesn't have a Yahoo! account. I agree with her too.)

Honestly, I found a tone of cowardice in there.

If you're not willing to take a chance and give it your best shot (believe me, you're more than likely not going to succeed in keeping only one girl for the rest of your life right now) and if it doesn't take, it doesn't take. It's not her fault if she does not feel partial to you. It sounds like you're trying to make her feel sorry for you. That's a big no-no. That speaks volumes. No one needs a pity date.

Women like confidence. If you really felt like you have a strong attraction to this girl, you'd nut up and not talk about your feelings in a letter but in actual words with vocals. I don't find anything more impressive than seeing a man who comes up to me and shows me what he's made of.

Answer 11

Oh god...I'm going to give you an HONEST answer here:

Please don't send that a girl. It sounds like you're completely obsessed with her. And she'll think so, too. It sounds like  you stalk her at night and watch her from a distance.

There are other ways to tell someone that you are in love with them.

Just don't tell her like that. Especially if you're not even in a relationship yet.

Few words...less talking about how many times you've gotten laid off on football because of thinking about her. It makes you sound desperate.

And remember, whatever you say....make sure you tell her TO HER FACE.

Writing all of this to her will make it all the more awkward....and wierd.

I mean, don't get me wrong...the letter is EXTREMELY sweet and I would LOVE to get that from a guy...I would be totally flattered. It's just too soon....just wait a while...start off slow and take things one step at a time.

Answer 12

oh my god that is soo sweet! If my boyfriend said that to me I would be so happy! It might be a LITTLE much but even if you don't chang eit it's amazing. So you're asking this girl out? I'm a little confused. You've talked to her for the past few weeks and now you want to ask you out? That's the only part I'm unsure of. If you're asking her out it might be a little much but i still think its amazinglyyyy sweet. go for it. youre so brave! i would never have the courage to say that to like my boyfriend or something

Answer 13

I think it's really sweet and romantic...but a bit too much to give a girl who you haven't even asked out yet. This is more like a 6-month anniversary letter.

I don't really like this line either "I haven't been emotionally attached like that for two years now, and I think that it will be good for me to experience that again." because it sounds like it's all about what YOU get....you need to explain to her what you'll do for HER. Guys never understand this for some reason...... :)

Anywho...for asking someone out I would just keep it short and simple...play it cool.

Answer 14

Aww I think thats sweet.....if you don't know her that well or if she doesn't like you it might come off as a little creepy though.

Answer 15

wow, that would be very intense. A lot of pressure for a new girlfriend to stand up to. Sounds like your emotions run deep. How about start simple and gradually tell her that you have been admiring her for a while and see where things go. Don't over do or smother her. Sure fire way to run her off! Good luck.

Answer 16

not sure.

Answer 17

There is not a woman in America that would like to get this letter. You are a con man. Note: Guess I was wrong and I should not be speaking for women. Seems like a few women liked it.  So let me put it another way...a man should never send this kind of letter. It is manipulative.

Answer 18

i think if i got that from a guy it would really depend on the guy if it was some guy i'd never actually talked to i'd be freaked out but if i knew the guy i would be flattered. i think that's an amazing thing to say.  

Answer 19

My heart would sink (in a good way)

you spelled some words wrong though, also I would leave out the part about you not feeling that way in 2 years. Even if it was 2 years ago she still might be thinking about who that girl was....and well you know a girl is once she thinks about something there's no stopping her.

just say "I haven't felt this way for a long time, but thinking about you makes me wonder why I haven't, because its the most glorious feeling in the world." ya know something like that lol.

Answer 20

That is really sweet.  

Answer 21

This seems really sweet, it would be very hard to reject the guy who says this. If the girl is into you and you know it, then this would probably be something nice to say to make the girl smile or even more.

Answer 22

that is the sweetest thing i have ever read! if u guys rnt good friends then it might sound of stalkerish and weird but if u r friends and u talk then that wud b totally cute

Answer 23

UR A ******* HOMO   THAT HAD TO BE THE MOST CORNIEST THING

Answer 24

If I got this from a guy I would be shocked, but very curious about who this guy is. + think he's really sweet of cours lol:). x

Answer 25

i would definetly be flattered. i would love it if i got that from a guy and i would think about him allt the time. just him taking the time to write that to me is amazing and i would love it.and it would defintley make me think twice before rejecting you if you asked me out. i would give you a chance and take a risk like you said. but if this is how you feel then i truely think you need to give her this and tell her how you feel. if you dont then you will forever regret it and like you said its better to know whatever the answer is than never knowing at all. so take a risk and im sure she wont say no. but do you talk to her in person and are you some what freinds with her?? just make sure you arent total strangers and comfrotbale talking with eachother. best of luck to you!

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Answer 26

If you like him, go for it.  If not, tell him nicely that you appreciate his letter but want him to find a wonderful girl who will be into him the same way he is into you.

Answer 27

OMG! I would say "YES! I'LL GO OUT WITH YOU!" and give him a big kiss on the cheek! That's SOO sweet. Did you right that yourself??

Answer 28

im speechless

oh

I feel like that

but I'm not as brave as you are ='[

Answer 29

awwwwwwwww that's sweet. i would (personally not to be mean but.........) i would simply just un-suggar coat it a little other than that i am touched and would reply with a definite UH YES I WOULD GO OUT WITH U.if thtas what you were aiming at?                                                                                                              good luck getting the girl.i feel for ya man!

Answer 30

well the first part was sweet n' romantic but i was really confused when it came to the time of the risking and such  things