Ladies, would you forget the person who you loved and broke your virginity?

Question

Ok well here's my story and I need advice and help.

I met my girlfriend at school two months before I left and we are still together thought. There is a two year difference, Im a junior and she a freshman, but mature :) We are each others world and think we are perfect for each other. I broke her virginity and unlike many people my age stayed around. I didn't play with her heart and was perfect. We went on dates and everything was great. It was like heaven. But after just two months and four dates ( I seen her everyday in school), I am visiting another state. I will not be here for more than a year, but I am unsure when I going back. So I broke her virginity and we love each other to death. I am insecure and scared that because I am away she will forget me, would you?

yes we still talk everyday and i still make her smile

Answer 1

I could never forget my man. She won't forget about you, trust me.

Answer 2

If she really cares about you, being in touch for a year or so should be enough.  After all, she's only a freshman and she'll have plenty of time.  On the other hand, she's only a freshman and you are only a junior.  You should both be dating other people.  You can still love her and be faithful to her by not having s*x with other people, but just agree that both of you will go on other dates.  That way, when you get together again, you can be sure that you still love each other and have had enough life experience to make a mature and informed decision.  Writing letters, calling, and trying to get together if at all possible are as much as you can do.  Just make sure that she knows she is still special to you.  Good luck.

BTW, I know this wasn't a question that you asked and I am probably telling you something you have heard many times, but you are both too young to be having s*x.  If you call it "breaking her virginity" you are way to young and inexperienced in life to be thinking that you are ready for a permanent relationship.  Your grammar sounds horrible.  You need to pay as much attention to your schooling as you do to this girl.  Finally, maturity is not measured by how large a woman's b*****s are. A mature person would want to be with a mature person.  Both of you need the chance to grow up and explore life a little.

Answer 3

NO you never forget your first person her your gave your virginity too. I am 27 yrs old and I still today think of the person that I gave my virginity too almost 13 years ago. There is a special bond between the two of you. You may not know it but she knows it and it will be with her forever.

Some girls take it very serious and cherish that part of there body and I am guess that your girlfriend does the same or she wouldn't have saved her self for that long..

Answer 4

If she does not wait for you to return then you won't be losing the love of your life. You will be losing someone who moved on.

I know 2 years don't seem like a big difference - but at your age it's a life time.

When you graduate she will be a junior. You will have less and less in common. Some couples over come that - most don't.

Things will turn out the way they were meant to and even if it don't work out and you get hurt. You will both be ok and find love with or without each other.

Answer 5

If she meets someone else she might...