Ladies/Girls!! Could a girlfriiend make me happy? Or should i stay alone.?

Question

Im a guy im 28 and find life a little boring! Ive done lots of stuff but ive always wanted a girlfriend. Im a bit overweight and have been rejected alot. I dont have any confidence anymore i was bullyed in school (because i was fat) until i got too big for older kids to bully at about 15, im 6'3 and 275lbs. Ive asked girls out in the past and always been turned down, even by the ones i got on really well and felt a connection with. I fell in love once with a girl who already had a boyfriend, she said we were soulmates and meant to be together and i believed her. I told her i wanted to spend all my time with her and wake up with her in the mornings and go to bed with her at night she said she felt the same and i had my first and only sexual experience with her. This was 6 yrs ago, i told her how insecure i was about things about my body and she promised to be my girlfriend and split with that guy. she never did, i was heartbroken. She told me she was just a mate and couldnt make me happy(but i felt happy with her) and i had to be happy on my own first. Is that true? I was heartbroken for a long time. I am not happy on my own, ive tried to lose weight and find it hard alone. I have old habits. I also have psoriasis and am losing my hair. I miss having some physical closeness with a girl, even just ahug like i used to get from supposed 'friends'! I also want s*x, what if i visit a prostitute, would anyone understand? I want to be confident and good at s*x so next time i meet a girl so i can make her happy! Help.

Answer 1

well really nobody can make you happy but yourself.i understand your having a broken heart and everybody has been on that road before.if you always feel so insecure about yourself then girls see/feel that and thats not attractive.your past is past and the only thing you  can do now is not make that same mistake again and learn from it.go see a dermatologist,do things that you love to do and mingle with people,hang out with your friends.there are a lot of jerks out there but if you feel confident about yourself (not to the point of being conceited) then when you get rejected you'd be cool with that and turn your attention to someone else.hookers? they wont make you happy either-maybe for a few minutes and you are back to your old self again.