Ladies: How old is too old to be a Virgin?

Question

Sometimes, I think I have blown it because I feel I waited too long (well into my 30s). However, how do I approach this situation? Should I tell a future woman I hook up with that I am a virgin or play it off like it doesn’t matter? Ladies does it matter to you?

Answer 1

Dude im 40 and still a virgin and wont have s*x before im married. Im actually very proud of being a virgin and im not scared at all to tell women this. If they dont like it then good riddance really fast(saves me alot of trouble lol) and if they like it then we start to get to know each other. Im very picky as to what kind of girl i like as far as her morals are concerned. Now only must she like virgins but she must not believe in premarital s*x herself.

My point is be proud of who and what you are and know exactly what you want from a woman. Be confident and dont worry about what every single woman on this planet thinks. Im 100% sure there is someone out there that thinks exactly like you.

Answer 2

No age is too old. That's a personal decision and there's no certain age you should lose it by.

Answer 3

You aren't competing with anyone. You chose a life style. When you are in love or want to be loved, being intimate will be something that makes sense for you. Until you want that, you don't have to please anyone but yourself.

You don't owe a woman an explanation. Truth is, there isn't a physical way to tell. She'll know that you are inexperienced and she can either teach or you can learn together.

It wouldn't matter to most. It might be a wonderful surprise for some lucky woman.

C. :)

Answer 4

it does not matter to me i respect the fact that you Waited.maybe your waiting for that special someone in your life.you will find her.don't give up.but if you do meet someone you think might be the one i would not waite any longer and no you do not have to tell a woman you are a virgin maybe when you meet that special person and you think you are going to make love with her you can tell her before you do so she is aware of the fact she might have to take control of the situation.

Answer 5

My Godmother. Perfect example: 75...you are not old.

She never married/never had a boyfriend, lives alone...end of story. Never too old.

Answer 6

Yeah, it matters to me.  See my blog.

Btw - that is one of the stupidest movies I ever saw.   I couldn't even sit through it.

Answer 7

I know I am young, but I am one of the odd girls who find older men attractive (not really old, but like 35) It's ok if you are still a virgin, it's hot. You don't have to tell a woman that, because she wont tell you. If it happens, it happens. Just make sure that there is a ring on her finger!

(You should be married to the girl)

Answer 8

I would be embarrassed to be a virgin when I graduated from college. Luckily, I've nipped that in the bud. ;) Some women like the idea of deflowering a guy, so you might get lucky, so to speak.

Answer 9

Some women will not like this answer but I don't really care.

Do what I did: Find a woman who wants to sleep with you and sleep with her. Don't tell her you're a virgin and don't even worry about how good you do. The TRUTH is, you just need to get that FIRST time out of your system... then its smooth sailing after that.

Make sure you do it with a woman you don't care about dating or staying with. Just get the experience, get some pointers from her if you think you were horrible and move on from there.

Why this is the best way to go:

-You avoid women talking trash about your virginity

-You avoid rejection from women who "want a man with experience"

-Its faster and easier

-If the s*x is bad.. it doesn't matter. Its just a test run.

-There are too many women out there to really care if you lie to a few to get experience. Once you get experience, you can be honest from that point on.

-Protects your ego

-Protects your reputation..

Answer 10

it might be a good way of weeding out a******s, if she does not accept you the way you are, maybe shes not worth the trouble!

Answer 11

There's no such thing in my opinion, and I think it should be respected regardless if you're a male or a female.  The BEST advice you will get on s*x is this:

Always use safe s*x.  Listen and respond to what your partner loves in bed and become great at giving her what she loves.  Don't just do things to her that YOU like  unless it's something she loves - know HER.  THAT is what makes a great lover!

Not all women like the same things in bed.  Don't inhale her face and slobber on her when you kiss!!  Women hate sloppy kissers and bad breath.  Take your time when you get down there - don't rush and don't neglect her clitoris.

...I can judge by the thumbs-down  that there's guys here who really  DON'T know what to do with a woman in bed.  You guys should pack it up and go home before the ladies LAUGH at you and tell their friends how LOUSY you morons are in the sack.  It DOES matter, because women talk and word gets around!  Don't be another one of those selfish minute-man idiots rushing in, leaving her with a disappointing experience with you.

Answer 12

My best friend date a guy who was in his 30's and still a virgin.  (I admit, we kinda laughed at him.)  When she found out, SHE was really worried having s*x with him.  She was worried that if it happened too soon, he might develop more feelings for her than she had for him, so she decided to wait and not pressure him.  She also felt the burden of making sure he enjoyed it.  They eventually sealed the deal and remain together and quite happy.  

I don't think it should be a big deal and I can only hope that if I ever find myself in a similar situation I handle it with as much grace as she did.

Answer 13

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