Ladies Only please - Oral s*x?

Question

My husband and I have a big disagreement. He says he loves giving me oral s*x, and sometimes gets upset if I don't let him. I just think it's gross, and I don't want him down there. He says I'm weird. I just can't see how anyone would enjoy that.

I just want to know how many women agree and disagree with me, and maybe why.

Please give me your score:

1. I hate it

2. It's okay sometimes

3. I like it!

4. OMG, it's better than regular s*x! (He made me add that one)

I keep very clean and trim. I just think this is not normal. . . HELP!

Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

3. i like it

i guess its a good thing during foreplay but it is weird to go overboard on it. personally, i think its weirder (and more gross) to give men head than to  be on the receiving end. overall, i think oral s*x is alright...but it is nothing compared to s*x. but if you don't like it or if it doesn't feel good to you then thats your own preference and you are entitled to that.

Answer 2

i would say #2, ..I have been married for 5 yrs and i dont hate it but i feel like 95% of the times that my husband gives me oral i do it more to please him than myself because i know he likes it. I dont like it so much, i mean he does it well but i would rather have other types of foreplay or just get down to businees.

Answer 3

It's ok sometimes...i do like it but not all the time...he likes to give it to me, but i already told him i will not give to him...i do not like to give it...i know it's weird! but i told him i felt bad him giving it to me and i don't give it to him...he said it was ok he liked to give it to me...but it does feel good...

Answer 4

2. It's okay sometimes, my boyfriend isnt used to it, however he loves doing it, sometimes i let him, sometimes i dont. Sometimes i dont feel a thing but sometimes i do, thats when it gets good. I say let him do it once in a while, sure its gross putting your mouth on someones genitals, but hes the one doing it, so hey, if he wants to, why not sit bak and enjoy it? your not losing anything. And trust me, once you get used to it, you will love it :)

Answer 5

After 17 years of marriage it is a little late to be worried about that.  Oral s*x is  very natural and common, as a guy I love doing it, I find nothing unpleasant about it.  But since you have some feelings against it, probably deeply rooted and from a long time ago, I doubt you will enjoy it until you come to terms with accepting it.  So either just allow it, or try counseling to come to terms with it.  But by doing simple math, married at age 20? + 17 yrs puts you about 37 yrs old. A little old to be finally asking about this.

Answer 6

I'm a man, but every woman that i have eaten her p***y, she just loves it. Most women get off three or four times and after that they really want to have s*x. This is not a dirty thing, and if you keep yourself clean there is nothing wrong with it. Do you realize that there are dirtier spots on the human body. If he thinks it's good and clean, let him eat it. It's really not the act of eating p***y that turns him on, but the reaction he gets from you while he is eating it, is what really turns us guys on.

Answer 7

double OMG

i love it ,love it and wish i would get it every night . you re a little weird . even conservatives couples from islam religion do it behind door  

Answer 8

As you said, you ARE weird.

After I've finished, I've never, ever had a woman tell me not to do it again.

k

Answer 9

alot of women are nervous, or don't like it for inscure reasons, if he likes doing it, let him, and relax, you will get use to it, and like it eventually.

Answer 10

I would say I'm a 2. I think it's a little weird too. I prefer regular s*x to it by far.

Some of my friends have said how great it is and blah blah, I just don't think so. It doesn't matter to me how good the man is at it, I am just not that comfortable with it.

You are preaching to the choir, sister!

Answer 11

I would have to say #2.  I don't dislike it, I actually enjoy it when my husband does it.  I just don't care to have it often...

Answer 12

Depends on who is the one giving it to me. In the past i have been with someone who couldn't for the life of them figure out what to do even with a map and a d**n compass.  With my fiancee....completely different story.  Now I would rate it at a 2.5.   I like it, but it isn't really something I want all the time.  I would much rather spend my time on him.....Now is that weird?????

Answer 13

OMG lol  To each their own but I absolutely LOVE oral s*x.  Its VERY normal and amazing. I think that you should remove from your mind that its "gross"  "not normal" and "weird"  and then think of how great it feels and work with your husband on how it can feel good for you because once you get it the way you like it, its great!

Answer 14

This is a guys view.

Normal is a setting on the washing machine.

Guys like it because it is an intense pheromone rush.

But s*x should be fun.  If it isn't then don't do it.  It is your body not his.  Your choice not his.

Answer 15

You're not alone.

There are a LOT of women that don't like it actually.

I personally love it. But only with my boyfriend now. I used to hate it, and my current boyfriend just did it and it was amazing. Now I look forward to it.

And, men love to do it. Not all. But it's something that they love doing. I don't know exactly why, but they do. My boyfriend like, begs me to do it sometimes. Lol.

Answer 16

You know guys HAVE to answer this as well....

You would deny your life partner the sweetest, sexyest, scent on earth?

You may not understand, but your husbadn does (dogs do to.....now i can see how it makes one uncomfortable to have a dog sniffing arounf there).

Answer 17

Oral s*x is not just for your pleasure dear. Most important is the satisfaction of the one performing. It is just as much as a turn on for them as it is for you.Yeah I know it may sound weird but I can get just as turned on giving it than I can getting it. So let your husband get off!

Answer 18

I love it! It's not better then s*x because they are both great in their own separate ways. I have always told people that I married my husband for his tongue. An o****m from oral is like no other. I think it tastes gross as well but if he doesn't then he can GO FOR IT!!!!

Answer 19

ill say 3. i like it a lot...but if the guy doesnt know how to do it right...it can kinda start to feel gross. ive have good and ive had bad...so maybe youre husband doesnt do it very good. lol im sorry kiddo

Answer 20

It's a matter of personal preferance. If you like it, and he is so gung-ho about doing it, let him! It's very common, and some people actually enjoy it. ;) If you're still uncomfortable about it, then he should respect your decision on it and move on. That's why he's your husband. And if you're still worried, eat healthy. Just like a man's ejaculation can taste different on what he eats, a woman's v****a works the same way. Eat lots of fruit to make you more comfortable and him love giving you oral even more! Good luck, and enjoy!

Answer 21

If a man truly loves women, he enjoys it.    A lot.  Especially when the woman is on top.   It's the essence of your womanhood and he is right there in it.    He obviously loves you, worships you - go with that!

BTW Nikki please e-mail me!

Answer 22

My answer is 3.  But it really depends on the guy.  Some are terrible at giving it and can actually cause discomfort.  Also, if it is not done right it can lead to infections.  You actually prefer not to have those guys do oral on you.

But when a guy knows how to do it can be fantastic.  However, I would never opt for just oral.  The best is mixing oral and "regular" s*x.

Answer 23

I'm going to be honest.  I'm not a huge fan.  I like giving it, but I don't like getting it that much.  Once in a great, great while I want it, but otherwise? NAH.

But you should feel lucky!  Lots of men won't do it and their girls WANT them to.

Answer 24

It is normal, and if you haven't tried it, then don't knock it. I'm a heshe so I can only answer half the question. The half I like. lol

Answer 25

I can relate to this one.....while I love it, I sometimes WORRY that I'm just not "clean" enough or perhaps I smell or something.  Hubby insists that HE LOVES IT and there are no hygiene issues whatsoever.  It's basically a hang up.  It's not gross, and I love to give oral, so it's not that.  I think it is very very intimate when someones face is smooshed up to a very private place on you, and that perhaps it's TRUST that you are having the problem with, not Grossness.

Just my opinion.

Answer 26

I LOVE It !! When my husband does it to me. But, I will tell you, before him, I didn't really like it that much. I think your comfort level does matter. Before we got married and we have been married for 12 years, I was EXTREMELY self conscious with other men. Not the case with my husband, he makes me feel beautiful and loved and very comfortable in my own skin. I thought I was weird before too. Just relax and go with the flow.  

Answer 27

i like it, but i can see where you're coming from(no pun intended). it is weird at first, but you have to remember that he's your husband and you should feel comfortable enough to have him pleasure you in any sort of way. but in order to enjoy it, you have to be comfortable enough. maybe try things that would ease you up to it.  

Answer 28

Relax, I mean re-lax. You might grow to enjoy it. from a mans point of view. I'm not the energizer bunny and I'm not hung like a horse. I've found that oral s*x if done well can do a couple of things. 1 help stimulate my partner so she can climax faster during "regular" s*x. 2 I've found some women can climax multiple times through oral s*x if they can relax and enjoy it. talk to your husband. the best s*x comes from communication between partners.  

Answer 29

I like it =3. I truly enjoy it , I guess b/c the person really has to know what the heck they're doing. I mean it's part of s*x. Do you do him?

But if you dont like it then tell him, but if he LOVES doing it let him , what if he finds someone else to practice it on . Then you'll be pissed.

It's not that bad..if you keep it clean and fresh , trimmed and pretty then what so gross about it.

Answer 30

I cannot for the life of me understand how men who love to give oral end up with women who hate to receive it and men who hate to give oral end up with women who love to receive it.

Oh the injustice in this world just boggles me!

LOL

Answer 31

I think it depends on how it's done.  I prefer my husband not to even bother going down on me because he has no idea what he is doing.  So I'd have to go with #1.  And, I'll go with #1 on giving one too.  You never mentioned if you give oral to him?