Ladies!! Who's ever fallen for a TOTALLY worthless guy!?

Question

I can't believe I was so naive. I just found out that this guy that was flirting with me nonstop is the biggest player I've ever seen! Loser! Even though I totally hate him now, I can't stop thinking about him for some reason! It's like a nightmare! Or an infectious disease! Makes me sick... Plus I have to sit next to him in one of my classes everyday. I hate his stupid playing guts... I can't BELIEVE I was so naive! I must've looked so guilable. Who's ever been in my position???

Answer 1

I Have it sucks

Answer 2

i have and although he really ruined my self-esteem etc. he did give me the best thing i could ever receive. she's 15 months now and she's just like her daddy, <my BF not 'the sperm doner'>

Answer 3

YEP, been there, and hated him. I went out with a guy this summer that I've known for awhile and he seemed like a nice guy. Plus he was cute, so I said yes. He just asked me out so he wouldn't be single over the summer. Oh well, trust me..he looks like a jerk and u don't look gullable. Nothing to cry over, I didn't.  

Answer 4

so sorry that he did this to you  he is a loser and you are young try to find something to take your mind off of him so you dont dwell on it  or you will get you down unfortunately there are a ton of guys out there just like him so pull up those boot strings  and get back out there but this time you will  know what to avoid

Answer 5

Don't worry been there done that (more then once lol) I think when you like someone you just don't notice the bad things until things end and you get a good look at who they really are...

Answer 6

We all have....for some reason, we are attracted to guys like that :(

Then a "good" one comes along :)

Answer 7

I've falled for 2 worthless guys. One of em I met through a friend- online. We talked on the phone, he liked me, i liked him, then we meet for the first time and see a movie. He didn't like how short i was and continuously complained. I never saw or talked to him again after the date.

The next one was worse, but somehow we are still friends....he liked me and my best friend at the same time (without my knowing it), refused to be my boyfriend, stole my first kiss and continuously asked to touch me.

So trust me when I say that you arent the only girl who is going to fall for the bad guys, but eventually we find the good ones.

I've got me a good boyfriend.

Answer 8

It happens to everyone. You learn from your mistakes and thats what makes you stronger I think. Don't let it get to you ok

Answer 9

I have...I just let his sorry *** go about a week ago. I'm never looking back!!

Answer 10

I was in your position, but then soon after I found another crush and everything was fine. Even tho I've never dated, its absolutly fine to feel that way. You should just ignore him, and if he starts it again, tell him no way, and to get out of your face. It's not that hard, and if he won't leave you alone, either tell a school faculty member or give him a little smack in the face when nobodies looking and walk away as fast as you can and find a group of friends. That way, he won't confront you and by that point he probably gets the picture. I hope that helps!

Answer 11

When I was 14, I was totally in love with this guy who was always getting into trouble, never had goals, and would never stick to anything. And he was crazy about me too. I decided to move on because I thought it was awkward because I was always on the straight arrow.

Good thing I did.........7 years down the road, he's now in jail.

:-)

Do yourself a favor and just forget about him. Guys like that will never make good boyfriends. Find yourself a good guy to get your mind off of him. Bad boys are easy to fall for. :-)

Answer 12

Oh geez, I did! I was involved with this disgusting guy, who was the worst liar in the world, he was 8 years older than me, and I feel grossed out even by the mere thought of him, ugh... It was the biggest mistake of my life.

Answer 13

Haven't happened to me, but don't worry. You live and learn. This will pass.

Answer 14

Yep, it's happened to me only worse.  I dated him for 7 months.  Good thing you figured it out soon.

I swear, guys like that are like a drug.  Even now I'm fighting temptations for this guy that I KNOW is just like my ex and a total playa.  There's just that something that draws me in anyways and I hate it.

Answer 15

all the time and it SUCKS.

Answer 16

I know you wanted a woman's opinion only, but I'm a guy and I've seen this too many times. I've seen a lot of good girls with guys who have no ambition... You see this with men too, but that's only if the girl is really attractive...  

Answer 17

ME! AND I HATE IT!  Well is he nice or just flirty and you cant even see if he would be a good friend?

Answer 18

guys like that are ALL over the place.and they totally take advantage of sweet girls and i hate it to. 'cept, i liked this boy ever since kindergarten and he was so sweet and nice to me all the time and flirted like crazy, and then once i asked him to go to the 8th grade formal with me [[ i had the guts finally.]] he turned me down for a different girl and told his best friend he never liked me.

WTF!?!

but now i look back on it and im in 11th grade, and when i see him i dont feel anything for him,and the girl he picked over me is one of my friends now, broke up with him and said he is so mean to her and she hates him with a passion hah.

ugh.

=/

Answer 19

im  a guy so i probably you probably wont read this... bu it isnt your fault you totally fell for this guy, and it isnt only you eether, just keep in mind that he is the player and you are the victim, now you can learn from this huge mistake and think twice before u can trusst another guy

Answer 20

I've feel for 2 worthless guys two times.

Answer 21

I think just about every girl in the world has had a thing for a guy who was no good for her.  That's life.