Ladies: Why you choose one man over the other....?

Question

I've always been curious about women's selection of men, in general, when it comes to dating someone. I understand every woman has different preferences and are often asked out from men who show interest in them.

My question is... Ladies: Exactly what physical/personality/mental qualities that make you say 'Yes' to a man when he asks you out on a date?

ALSO LIST your AGE (as I want to see if age plays a role in your selection of men... but not always the case. Just out of curiosity).

Answer 1

I'm not that picky to be honest. I don't like doing this kinda stuff. The reason is because love is so spontaneous and when you fall in love half the time, it's someone you don't expect.

There was a guy, we were good acquaintances. I'd been watching him and thought about how he fit every description of what I wanted to marry, yes marry. But I didn't feel the same way about him that he did about me. Love is weird, man

I'm 19

:)

Answer 2

wow.

it deff wouldnt be a guy who gets on here and asks that!

laimo!

Answer 3

I'm 26.

I am married now, but I wouldn't have said "yes" to a guy asking me on a date if:

1. He had bad hygiene.

or

2. He seemed creepy, like he didn't have real respect for women.

Answer 4

hmm well to start off with i'm fifteen. almost sixteen. haha and i usually wonder about this, except with guys instead of girls. physically, i'm looking for a fit guy. not like obsessively buff, just a nice body. i like track runners and soccer players :] also i like dark, longer hair. but it really doesn't matter. and actually you may not think about it, but smell makes a difference too. if a guy is wearing a cologne that i really like then i'm gonna be more attracted to him. as for personality, i like a funny, outgoing guy. but he needs to have a deeper side too, like be able to hold conversations and talk about other things besides sports (haha no offense). i guess that kinda goes with mental though. oh and he has to be kinda smart. i'm not looking for a genius, but i'm not so into guys who don't try in school and end up getting d's and f's. obviously it's gonna be kinda hard to find a guy that fits those things perfectly ... so it all depends. but that would be my ideal guy. ♥  

Answer 5

I am 20 years old and I am with the love of my life. : D The things that made me say yes to him were that he's really funny, he had me laughing from day one. He is really fun and easy going. He is passionate like I am which makes it easy for us to relate to each other in most situations, he is a Christian. He's very smart and kind. He's super sweet and thoughtful. He made a huge effort. He was very up front and honest with me from the very beginning. He is s**y... he has black hair, brown eyes, and dark skin. He is a big guy. He is 5'10" and very broad and muscular. He made a hug effort to get me and he still makes a huge effort for me on a daily basis. He is always there for me and supportive even when I get a little crazy sometimes. I just love him so much and he loves me so much. And honestly I think when you find the right person you just know\. You can tell from early on that they are right because things just click.  

Answer 6

The only way for me to answer this is if i give my own PERSONAL decision making points.  

I'm 23 btw.

Physical-  It doesn't really matter..just as long as they keep themselves clean and trim.  I tend to like guys with darker hair/nice eyes..but I've been known to date a few blondes.

Personality-  MUST BE FUNNY!  I can be a sarcastic ***** (in joking terms), so he's gotta be able to take it and dish it back!  I like laid back guys who are overall very friendly and don't get their feathers all ruffled over minor things.

Mental- Well..I like my men sane.  That always helps.  Heh.

Answer 7

21

I sometimes say yes out of pity.

But besides that, I say yes if he is smart and cute.

And I'll always say yes if he is rich. (I don't care what other females say, we are all gold diggers at heart.)