Ladies and guys very urgent situation and need your help?

Question

Ok there is this girl, she went to my high school, she was the cheerleading captain over there and we talked often (not good friends or anything) but about a month ago she emailed me. (this is 5 years after graduation) Se we met up on day and was just catching up and I gave her a ride to the airport, she lives in Florida and is a model. on her way to the flight she gave me a hug and a kiss (on the cheek) and then she ssend me an email with a picture of her (topless but using her hands to cover herself with) and said that the picture was for me, She has to go to Europe for modeling (she is very preety BTW) and then she will come back to where I live (to visit her parents) and wanted to hang out with me. I am very confsed as to what she wants. She also sents me sweet emails where she calls me like honey and stuff like that.

How do I respond to these emails?

Please help me I havenever been in these situations?

Thanks a lot

We are both 23.

Answer 1

Do you know if she has feelings for you?

Answer 2

I have alot of experience in this type of situation. Dont lose her if you really like her. so listen carefully. when she emails you nice things you just respond sweetly. Be carefull not to over use your language and switch to sexual talk. Use simple sweet english and keep her close to your heart. Make her know you like her alot. According to how you wrote i believe she's really confident and outgoing so mate let her do the first step but you keep up with her and dont lose her. Good luck man!!

Answer 3

I think she sounds like she's in2 u, sending you that pic & telling u it was just 4 u..

Just be yourself & let her guide the depth of the emails.

Just be honest & tell her that you would like to see her too.

on the down side, beware pretty girls, some just love the attention & being a flirt. but then not all girls are like this.

Good luck, you will know what to say when you sit down to write..  x*x

Answer 4

Well she seems interested and unless she's the uber friendly type who behaves this way with everyone, i say you should make a move on her. Fast. But only if you're interested though (and i can tell you very well are- she's a model for God's sake!) She's already made the task an easy one for you to fulfill, dude. What with the topless photos and all. I say go for it. All the best!  

Answer 5

she obviously wants more from u! im 16 and i can tell that! ur 23, ur an adult, u dont expect a 16 yr old, or any 16 yr old to tell u what to do, do u?

Answer 6

Well you may not like my answer, but this is how I would see it. She is definitely sending you messages. And  she is interested in you. But showing you her body covered by hands or not makes me wonder. If she will give you a pic like that...how many other guys would/has she give to other guys? And if she has and has slept with any of them, what might she spread to you? Yeah I am a female, but I think logically like a male. I have fooled tests that were invented to tell a difference in sexes. If I were a guy, I would be leary of anything past casual dating (absolutely NO s*x). I am using large type here for emphasis only).  The worst kind of dates  or relationships, ( out side of marriage) are made when you think with the wrong organs.  You are both still young. Don't just date one person at a time; date two or three. The one you feel most comfortable with, as well as a physical attraction to will (most likely) be your best bet for the long haul;(this however is not totally fool proof... ***some people can be good at faking their feelings for you)  if that is were you are wanting a relationship to go. It only takes one mistake and you can wind up with a disease you can't cure and could spread to the (real miss right ).  Do you want to risk you as well as someone you really are in love (not lust) with? Think about  this long and hard before jumping into something you might regret the rest of your life.

*** My 'x' was good at fooling lots of people including me and the minister that married us. The minister talked to both of us for a long time before deciding to officiate or wedding. My 'x'  committed adulty not once but three times I know of. One was while we were separeted(not divorced) and she has hepatitis and God only knows what other diseases.  I saw him recenty, he staggers when he walks (not a drinker) takes baby steps when walking and is as pale as a ghost. He is also paranoid to the hilt. Afraid to go the same way twice to any location. And is constantly looking over his shoulder....guilty concious wider than the mississippi. He has nearly crashed his car because of the guilt that is eating him alive.  Me?  I only look over my shoulder when backing up my car. I didn't cheat on him, so there is no guilt eating me from the inside out. I sleep nights.... from the last time I saw him ....I don't think he sleeps more than an hour a night. If I didn't know any better, I'd say he has aids or some other STD. He is 3 years older than I am, but looks 40 years older now.  Like I said, think with your brain and use it wisely. Spare yourself from the kind of stuff nightmares are made of.  That's why people should keep their virginity. Then when they get married, they are both disease free.

Answer 7

leave it casual and email that you would love to get together when she comes back into town. give her your number and see if she calls.  

Answer 8

Keep in touch, but don't hold your breath

Answer 9

If a girl sends her topless photo to you though covered with her hands, you have to be a jerk not to understand the meaning behind it. She must be intrested in you. Take a lead from here. Do not expect she will make the next move on you with her in the same room or something of that sort.

Ask yourself whether you are intrested in her. If you are, go ahead & ask for a date with her. If she agrees, there you are. If she does not, she would have answered your question.

Answer 10

If you wany to be just friends be casual, but if you want more, be straight forward and honest with her.  Nothing worse than the what if ? 5 years from now.

IF you want a friend just be casual,but if you would like more don't beat around the bush, be straight forward and let her know how you feel. nothing worst than the what if ? 5 more years later.

Answer 11

Sounds like she probably likes you.

why don't you ask her out on a date?

Answer 12

Just b upfront Ask  whats going on? I do believe that high school is a veryjudgemental time in our lives were people only take each other at face value and dont realize whats behind the whole person.  Talk to her,  maybe she's just realizing the great thing she missed out on=)

Answer 13

Take it easy.. just she wants to spend some time you. Thats it. .nothing much I would say. No need to think seriously about her i guess. If you are realy love her. Tell her that and wait for her response.

Answer 14

Sounds as though she would be very happy to have you as her boyfriend. Write and tell her that you would be very happy to have her as your girlfriend when she is back from Europe.

Answer 15

she likes u dumb ***!!!!!! if u like her to u should answer them in back sort of how she talks to u but in a guy way. if that makes any scenes. just be ur self and if u don't like her like in that way, just let her know that ur just friends, nothing more and nothing less. hope this  helps!!!!!!!!! ;)

Answer 16

DUDE,she seems to like you.....ask her out for a date man

jeez...

Answer 17

dude she likes you

play back w/ her

she most likely wants a relationship

Answer 18

she's coming on to ya, so she definately likes ya so YOUR MOVE