Ladies can you give me a definite answer PLEASE!

Question

I'm involved in 3 year rlationship and my guy requirs alot of talk time im \short on words and hes long winded can you give me some topics to strike up

Answer 1

Most of the time, I have absolutely nothing to say to just about anybody, including my boyfriend.  He has LOTS to say about everything and to everybody and for a long time.  I just let the man talk his head off.  It works out just perfect for me.  He gets to talk and I don't have to say a word - not that he would shut up long enough to let me if I wanted to.  I'm not really understanding the problem, I guess.  If he hits on a topic that I feel strongly enough to actually say something about, then I say it.  If not, he says his piece and goes on to the next thing.  As long as he thinks I'm listening, it's all good.

Answer 2

well since you guys have been together for so long; you should bring things up that he likes sometimes;

other times you can just talk to him i mean thats your bf && you should talk to him like hes ones of your friends;

just talk;joke around;ask him things; losen up a little

:)

Answer 3

if he wants to talk about be nosy or something, you should tell him you have a nice date with your other boyfriend. that will quiet him down for a while.

Answer 4

If you don't know what to talk to him about after three years then you really haven't been paying attention to him. You know what is interest are, you know what his hobbies are, what he likes and dislikes (at least you should). So you should take the time to communicate with him, there's nothing that we can do for you. I tell you what, you had better be thankful that you have a man that wants' to talk to you vs. a man who could care less about sharing a word with you. Better yet, be happy you have a man that talks to you period; because there are some women in the world who are dying to have someone to talk too.