Ladies do you think it is spiritually wrong to get tubes tied after pregnancy, unless it is health wise?

Question

Otherwise I believe God should be in control besides the spouses on how many children we have unless there is a health factor.So spirtually are we playing God by choosing when to stop having children? I am expecting #4 by 7/11 or sooner but am getting fixed due ot health reasons, but my husband & his family keeps asking if I'm going to get fixed this time since I canceled before. Personally I think God would give me an idea when not to have them. I feel spiritually discouraged if I have them tied,but I do want my children to have a mommy around to teach them Gods word & just be there.

Answer 1

i don't think you should be posting questions like these up. everyone has they're own beliefs and everyone thinks diff. about this sort of sittuation.

Answer 2

A LOT of people are going to give you flack over this. I, however agree with you. I made the decision to have my tubes ties before I was saved, and now I regret it.

Answer 3

I dont understand what the big deal about getting your tubes tied would be? I am a christian and a firm believer in God, but have never heard of anyone not getting their tubes tied for some spiritual reasons. Regret is another thing, if you think you may change your mind definitley don't do it, but if you know your done than go for it. it's not like you've never had kids, or only have 1 baby, you have 4! Thats great, you beat most of America! Yes we were made to reproduce, which you've done. Mission accomplished. Good job! Do you really think God would rather you die than get your tubes tied? That doesn't even make any sense! Don't feel guilty - you've got to  be there for your family!!

God luch

Toni Lynne  :)

This is just mind boggling to me, I am so curious, if someone could tell me where on earth in the Bible does it say not to get your tubes tied?

Answer 4

I never really thought of of tubals as a spiritual issue, but I see where you're coming from. I must be a really bad Catholic; I use condoms and once my husband and I are done having kids we're going double and getting a tubal AND a vasectomy, just to increase our chances of NOT getting a surprise. In your situation though, maybe your health problem is God's way of telling you you're done making babies. Don't feel bad about getting that tubal; you need to be there for your children and they will need your guidance.