Ladies....does your boyfriends single best mate appear more of an attractive offer after a while?

Question

i've noticed in my circle of friends that the ladies appear more friendly and flirty with the single chaps rather than with their own men. are they bored? is this a common female trait? are the boyfriends just for verbal punchbag? :)

Answer 1

it depends on the girl, the girls you see doing this could just be flirty. Sometimes when it isn't going well it could be done to make someone jealous. It could just be their personality, or maybe they find the others attractive. It all really depends on the person.  

Answer 2

we were bread to mate, if a female finds a bigger male or potential mate she will do some kind of dance or signs, look for the l*****g of the lips, or the toss of her hair, and even the walk. her pigmentation is a dead give away. So watch these women they cant be trusted!

Answer 3

These girls you're talking about sound like douches. No boyfriend deserves that.

Answer 4

no. it doesnt happen to me.

Answer 5

i know that i definately feel more comfortable around my husbands friends as opposed to when we first met, so i am way more friendly, joking, and at ease with them.  however, i couldn't even imagine being with anyone but my husband, and especially not his single (or hooked up) friends.  as far as the last question, i guess i've never treated my husband like a verbal punchbag.  i have seen other women do it and i don't think it's right, after all, if their men did it to them, the women would be crying about it.

Answer 6

I think its true that ladies appear more frndly and flirty with single chaps perhaps after seeing them they remember their past days which they missed have missed now.

Answer 7

Well noticed!!! Yeah I think its a common problem in men AND women - I think no matter how happy you are in a relationship, its always nice to get an ol flirt or to do a bit of harmless flirting with your partners friends. Its not like you're going to do anything with them (well hopefully not!) when they're your boyfriends friends.....

xx

Answer 8

never met them but sometimes talk to guys cuz you already know everything about your bf  so you talk to their mates to learn more about them have something new to talk about, when my friend comes over with her bf i tend to talk to him more than her, not cuz i like him but ive known her for 12 years, probably only recently met her other friends tho maybe cuz she gets to be a wall flower around them :( or i do it to make sure hes not bored when they come to visit. chill out, its not that im after him.  

Answer 9

Men do it too.  

It is called fickleness.