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Ladies, what would you think of a woman who accused a man of "harassing" her because he told her he liked her and wanted to go out with her?

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Think she has a tenancy to over react.
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I would say she's a stuck up bi***...
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How often did he tell her he liked her? How often has he asked her for a date? If he does that all the time, it could be considered harassment.
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silly girl that needs to grow up
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Only if the truth was more than that, that he wouldn`t take no for an answer, which is sometimes the case.
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Was the man her boss? How many times did he ask her? How did he ask her? This very well could fall under "harassment"

Something tells me that you are the culprit and think that it isn't harrassing someone if you are asking them out.

Office politics are very tricky and it's best not to "ask someone out" anymore.

Next.
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just that doesn't sound like harassment, but the way it is said can make a big difference, don't you agree?
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It sounds as if she's unreasonable, but have you given all the details?
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A. She wants attention and thinks too much of herself

B. The guy totally skeeves her out and she's overreacting

C. she's totally psycho

D. She was totally right to do it if he didn't understand the meaning of the word NO the first time.
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If he did it repeatedly after she said "No" time and time again then yes it is harassment.
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It depends how he asked her. If he touched her in any inappropriate way that would be harassing. If she said no, but he kept asking her and wouldn't leave her alone, well I guess thats harassment. But if he asked her politely, well there is nothing wrong with that.
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She' gotten too comfy on her high horse...
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If that is all you said then no that is not harassment.

If she said 'no' and you did not persist then it's not harassment.

If she said 'no' but you keep/kept persisting then yes, that is can be viewed as harassment.

If you continually persist or refuse to leave her alone then she can report you for harassment/stalking and, at the very least, you will have a police record for 5 years.
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Was it once? That is not harassment. If it was time and time again and she refused each time then it certainly is harassment. Only you know the answer.
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No that is not harrasment. Coming from me, (a guy) that is just tell the truth. but if he did some gestures that were innapropiate, it would be totally different.
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Harassing is a strong word but at least she told you she wasn't interested.
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I wouldn't consider that harassment.
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Depends.

Like I had this friend and everyday this guy would send her a note saying "I love you so much. Please go out with me" and she kept denying him, but seriously he would send her a note like that EVERYDAY. So, I consider that harassment

But, if they just asked her once and nicely I don't know why she would say that.

Also, if they asked her in a inappropriate way then that might be considered harassment too.
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it depends how he said it, how many times.its about body language.apolgize and then just leave her alone.
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She's just being STUPID!
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That is not harassment!

Unless he stalked her.

No matter how much I didn't like a person back I would still be flattered if they told me they liked me.

That is just wrong. It is NOT harassment.
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lol that is not harassment at all shes abit attention seeking isnt she?
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For a start I would not ask again and I would warn all of my friends.

She does not have to like  the man who tries to date her but she can be polite. However if he is a nuisance by being very persistent she may well have little choice


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l bet if it came from a stud muffin, that she`d been drooling over, her interpretation would be quite a bit different!
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Simply telling a woman he likes her and asking her out is not harassment. Once she lets him know she's not interested, he needs to accept that and back off. If he persists, then that would get into harassment territory.
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I think she feels like her personal space is being invaded and the guy should leave her along.

Unless she says it in a joking manner.
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