Ladies: have you ever not returned the favor? Guys: has that ever happened to you?

Question

There is a girl I have dated for a couple weeks, and I recently spent the night with her for the first time. However it did not go the way I had hoped for: we first messed around for a while, then I went down on her. She asked me not to stop until she had an o****m. Then once she climaxed she said she was done! I was really turned on, but she didnt want to do anything about it. So I started an argument and I ended up leaving. Now I don't know if I should call her again - Im pretty angry, but I also cant stop thinking about her. Anyone ever experience a situation like this? advice?

Answer 1

Have I ever received and not given? Yes. Have I ever given and not received? Yes. I guess they have to immediately follow the other with you, how...predictable.

Answer 2

honestly, i think if you had given her some time to  "recharge" you would have been more than satisfied but by demanding an immediate return on your investment she most likely felt you only did it to get something...she went from feeling wanted and adored to feeling like some kind a vending machine you were kicking because it ate your quarter......you brought her to Ecstasy then said"on your knees" had you let her do it in her own time i bet it would have been amazing!!!!

Answer 3

s*x is not a duty.A person should not expect things,s*x just should be random and exciting and yes you should call her an say your sorry,be really sensitive an maybe next time you'll get satisfied!

Answer 4

hahaha lol...call her back and then try again...if she doesnt give in the next time try one more time if u want and then be like "forget u" and leave lol

Answer 5

Try again a different position ? probably 69

Answer 6

Yeah.  Been there a couple of times, actually.  Irritating as all h**l.

If you can't stop thinking about her, call her back, talk to her in a calm and rational tone.  Keep your voice soft and be (or pretend to be) caring and sincere as you do it.  It is possible she just needed some down time first, but it is equally possible that SHE just wanted to get her rocks off, and didn't care about you.  It is also possible that she has some past issue you may not be aware of, and so she may be hesitant to reciprocate at first... especially if there are concerns about trust or respect.

Until you find out what the real deal is... take it easy on her.  Even if you decide the whole 'patience' thing isn't for you... be easy on her when you leave.