Ladies help me win her soul!!!!!!!!!!!!!! girlz?

Question

i have asked this girl three times to hangout after we first went on a lunch 1½ month ago since then i have asked her and she goes like ohh this and that as if she is busy..so i stopped talking to her but now after three long weeks after not saying a single word i spoke to her and just like casual stuff...

but now what can i text her asking her to hangout...i mean when should i text her and what should i say. i dont want to look desperate and what kind of text would u probably think would be coolll.....

how abt this...hey, btw i was going to tell you abt this place that just opened and they are really good. they have all sorts of vegetarian dish. i mean since she is a veggan! i was wondering if you want to go there sometime..... GUYZ i mean ladies is this okay....please help me come up with something good

Answer 1

text should read "great new vegan place...my treat!"

gl buddy

Answer 2

maybe if shes into music you can invite her to a concert

or go on group dates so it doesnt seem like you want her alone so bad.

Answer 3

The first poster sounds spot-on. The way she phrased it is great, and besides, I've learned from experience that the longer a text is, A) The less people may want to read it (depending on personality) and B) If a text is too long, you may come off desperate.

Answer 4

thats cute.

lol

well wats she intoo?

double dates or group dates can make it feel better for herr...

maybe say this..

hey wats up new veggie place i heard its pretty good

..

and tell her it'll be a group date

Answer 5

Well, I for 1 like it when ppl ask me to eat lunch with them. But if she is not talking to u and doesn't want to hang out, maybe she's not into u. But when u txt her, maybe have a casul convo. like:

You: Hey

Girl: Hi.

You: What r u doing?

Girl: Homework.

You: Well, would u like to take a break from homework and come and hangout with me?

Girl: (If she says no, she might not be into you, or she might be to behind on homework. If she says yes then tell her the time u'll pick her up. Maybe even stop for a rose on the way to her house!)