Ladies how do you know that your husbands have never cheated on you?

Question

The answer is...You DONT.

Your not with him 24/7 so you have no idea what he could be doing.

Answer 1

You are right, there is no way to know for sure if your husband has cheated or not...however, there really is no reason to have a husband at all if you dont trust him, and even if he ISN'T cheating...if you accuse him long enough he probably will eventually.

Answer 2

Trust, and he knows better. =]  

Answer 3

To answer your question, because I'm one of the few wives that truly knows her husband. Because I care what he wants and make sure that he gets it (within reason peeps). Because I give him enough trouble that he knows I'm worth it.  Because I did not allow myself to blow up to 200 pounds after I said I do (size 2 for those that are curious). But most importantly, I desire him and show him that. The  hottest s*x is here, the deepest conversations are here and the greatest love is here and this is returned to me two-fold! He may do numerous things that don't make me happy, but cheat on me is not one of them.  

Answer 4

wrong. you may not know when he started cheating but you will find out and ladies you have very long memories. this isn't the kind of thing you forget.

at least my mother didn't, and believe me it was beautiful. of course, i helped her out, whenever i could...snitched on my father, like my life depended on it...i guess you could say my father and i had issues. that's another story.

Answer 5

Oh look, another woman scorned who has decided everyone is the same. How original.  

Answer 6

good point. U are right u don't know if they cheated. And they are not with them 24/7! I thought my bf was never going to cheat on me either and it happened. He was stoned at a friends house and it some how just happened! So ya u got a very good point! I know alot of wives are going to say oh my partner would never cheat on me! And u are right u don't know!

Answer 7

by his actions

the smell of his d**k usually is the scent that would send me to some punches on him...

Answer 8

I've heard that 76% of relationships endure some form of infidelity. So, statistically, he probably has.

You could try asking him about it (not in an accusatory way). See how he reacts. The thing to ask yourself is, would it matter if he had?

I think it's sort of a case of "be careful what you ask". If he has been sitting on a secret and you ask, you don't know what could come out.

Good luck to you

Answer 9

You're right, for all I know he could be banging everything in a skirt. But I didn't just marry the first s*****k who was nice to me  I married the one man I have trusted totally  from the very first moment I met him :)

Answer 10

First of all, my husband has reverence for God.

He puts God first in his life, then me and then our son.

He spends all his time with us.

I know that I can trust my husband because he's constantly trying to please God in all that he does which makes him a good father and a good husband. My husband and I read the Bible and we hold close to God's Word. That is what makes us stronger against temptation and the devil's schemes.

The Bible reads;

-Hebrews 13:4

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

-1 Corinthians 6:12

[ Sexual Immorality ] "Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything.

Answer 11

Obviously no one can be 100% sure unless they are together every second of every day... however, I do think it is possible to be 99% sure. :)

Answer 12

You have no faith in people, you really really need some therapy, I understand someone must have really hurt you, but it's not healthy to be this way....  It's a two way street and saying all men cheat is incredibly narrow minded, do all women cheat to?  By you standard they must.  I really hope someone is able to show you a different side.

Good luck and God bless.

Answer 13

WTF Ever.......if you trust your spouse then you believe they are going to work when they say they are. Or if there's a dinner meeting at 10 pm on a Friday night.....lol.....it was a business meeting, with uh a few drinks babe......yeah okay, if you trust him, then you'll say I trust you. End of the story, if you don't well then you have bigger issues then what you think.....

Answer 14

that is an unrealistic question  impossible to know

Answer 15

no we are not together 24-7 but I have faith in my husband and I know he loves me and he knows that I love him. So, with my faith I believe that he is 100% faithful to me and he only wants me.  

Answer 16

You are absolutely right. I can only say that he has never given me a reason to think otherwise. Until then, I will trust him.  

Answer 17

You are right, you don't.I wish I had never found out.It took me years to get over the hurt, the humiliation.But time does heal all wounds.I was happily married for 25 years.When I attend a wedding I wish all couples are as happy as I was.My marriage wasn't meant to last any longer.Life goes on,happiness,full-fillment isn't something a partner can do for you.It is something you can only do for yourself.

Answer 18

Wow. It's sad to see you so bitter and angry.

I may not be with him 24/7 but I have faith and trust in my husband.

Seek therapy for this anger sweetie. I'm sorry your man screwed you over but that doesn't mean all of our husbands will do it to us. Get a grip.

Answer 19

Trust

Answer 20

aha

Answer 21

this is sotrue...sometimes i do wonder

Answer 22

no cause he would have agreed to a threesome but didn't only wants me tells me time and again

Answer 23

It's just like God. I can't see him, but I know he's there and I know that he is taking care of me. I am not with my husband 24/7 but I have FAITH in him and our love.

I have read a lot of things from you on here tonight. It seems like you have really been burned by somebody. :(

Also, how do husbands know that their wives have never cheated? Women cheat to you know.  

Answer 24

because I know him so well and well if he does I will chop it off .... lol well your right no one knows for sure but i would be depressed constantly worrying about it and me worrying about it won't stop it so I will just keep on livin life if he is or if he isn't  

Answer 25

True enough.  However, that is simply the most damaging perception you can hold onto.  You are not with anyone 24/7 so how can you know that those people are also not betraying you in one way or another.  The point here is to know who YOU are.  You must realize that you cannot ever control another persons actions, you can only control your own.  How do you choose to move forward?  Do you choose to hold onto negativity and hurt.  To live in perpetual suspicion of everyone?  OR, do you choose to work through your feelings of hurt and betrayal pertaining to this ONE event and move forward in a positive way that could possibly lead you to your emotional freedom?  It's all up to you, you choose....Good Luck and sorry you were hurt, nobody deserves that....

Answer 26

I have read numerous questions and answers from you and you are one angry bitter woman. You're right, it's amazing how naive women can be, and how well men can lie. They look us right in the eye and lie, lie, lie until they convince you that you're the crazy one. Although I agree with some of what you said, I hope you can heal and find some peace away from this man who hurt you so badly...or if you're on the other end of it...stay away from married men. No matter how wonderful affairs feel in the beginning, they ALWAYS crash and burn somewhere, and lives are destroyed.  

Answer 27

Ahem....it's spelled "you're", not "your"

Answer 28

You're right, we don't.  Same for him, he doesn't know for sure you haven't either.  But I trust that he hasn't and that he wouldn't.  If I didn't, I wouldn't have married him.

Answer 29

There are a lot of decent men in the world - you can't judge them all by the actions of the ones who aren't.

Answer 30

look into his eyes