Ladies i need you opinion?

Question

I sent my ex this!

I just had the strangest dream. After work I came straight home because I was tired. I took a shower cut my phone off and went to bed. The entire time I was tossing and turning. In the dream I thought you were next to me because I kept hearing your voice and your giggle. I actually thought you were laying next to me. I immediately woke up and look into my kitchen. I thought you were in there. I jumped out of bed and ran to the kitchen. But no one was there. I don't know what it is? There's not a day that goes by where I don't think about you as well as miss you.Everyday I want to hear your voice, but I find a reason not to call you. I miss talking to you even worse I miss seeing you. I don't know what my sub-conscience is trying to tell me. All I can say is that my heart misses you deeply.

She responded with this

Oh my god, I don't what to say. I miss you too. I wouldn't mind seeing you but I am afraid to go down that road with you again. So much has changed in our lives. I wouldn't know where to start. I tried calling you today but u didn't pick up. It would be nice to hear from u.

What does she want? Oh yea, she has a baby by someone else.

Answer 1

she wants to be with you but shes afraid and maybe not ready....u should take things slow

Answer 2

she wants to start this off slow and I do believe that this has to do with the fact that she now has someone else to take care of. She obviously has grown as a person due to the fact that she recognizes that both of your lives have changed.. As a mother she needs to be cautious at how fast she jumps into things.. As for having a baby by someone else if this does work out you will need to show her that having a child that indeed is not yours will not complicate your relationship.  Now depending on the circumstances you may also have to deal with the babys daddy is this something that you are willing to so?  Do you love her enough to except the things that you can not change and never use it against her?  If so then continue the open communication with her be honest because she needs this right now and I do believe that you may be able to achieve the relationship that you two do deserve.  Good Luck with this I hope that you indeed do get her but try to understand that you both need to reconnect on a higher level this time

Answer 3

It sounds like you love her. If you can have a healthy relationship with her, and love her child, then go for it.  

Answer 4

...she wants to hear from you. to talk.