Ladies only: can you have an o****m through penetration alone (no help from hands, toys, etc)? ?

Question

I thought it was relatively normal to not o****m through penetration alone, but I've recently encountered a couple of "men" who are making me feel like I'm abnormal because of it. I've tried telling them a lot of girls are like this (at least many I've talked to), so I wanted to find out how normal or abnormal it really is.

Answer 1

I think a lot of women fake it because it can be awkward to not o****m, but it's not at all uncommon to be unable to o****m from penetration alone.  If they're making you feel abnormal tell them they can go spend time with some normal girls instead, then. :P

Answer 2

I've gone through periods in my life where I could, and periods where I couldn't.  Near as I can tell... size was somewhat important, and positioning was VERY important.  No hands or toys, but there was pressure, you know?  It usually didn't start happening until I was comfortable with the guy, with one wistful exception... ah well.

Answer 3

From all the surveys I've read on this, it's a minority of women who can o****m just from vaginal penetration.

Those men sound like idiots for making you feel bad! Maybe they have been lucky up until now or just been with fakers! Sounds like they are insecure about their skills and taking it out on you.

Good site: http://www.the-clitoris.com

Harriet

Answer 4

Don't feel bad or weird if you can't o****m from penetration!! most women only can o****m from clitoral stimulation. there are tons more nerve endings in the clitorus than in the vaginal canal so it is easier for women to feel pleasure from stimulation outside of the canal.

a lot of women also say they can get off during penetration to make men feel better about themselves...this is called faking it. but why should women have to sacrifice sexual pleasure for mens' egos? tell your guy what feels the best FOR YOU. he should be happy to oblige...

also, don't let any man make you feel weird about what feels good to you...they don't have the same anatomy as females (obviously!!) so they do not know what feels good....

Answer 5

mans ego and faking it,makes them think that that's all it takes.some don't even know a woman can or cares if she can.lol..some guys think it's all about them.some guys like it when it's all about you...good luck

Answer 6

I never get off by penetration only?  My ex makes me feel like its ab normal too. BUT I have to have some kind of clitoris stimulation to get off. If its normal or abnormal who cares? Right? You are who you are and they can take it or leave it. :)