Ladies please help - embarrassing problem?

Question

Hi, please help me. I have a really embarrassing problem. Everytime I go out, I always end up getting too warm. It's not the sweating in itself that's the problem, but the effects of it. I know it's not just me that gets a little whiffy, but it gets really bad "down below", and other people are starting to notice.

A few weeks ago, I was so warm, my hair ended up stuck to my forehead. I am self conscious as it it, and this only adds to my paranoia. I do wash regularly.

As well as this, I am also majorly self-conscious, and it's absolutely horrible. I was almost in tears last night when I got in, worrying about what other people were thinking/saying - I walked into the toilet and heard someone with a bitchy comment saying to her friend "her hips look massive" (talking about me) - as if I didn't know that already! It really gets me down, especially when I've made an effort to look good.

Answer 1

are u fat?  if ur fat its cuz ur fat

if not u just naturally sweaty if u smell like tuna fish try wearin cotton panties n   spray curve crush down therr

Answer 2

I know this is going to sound crazy, but my mom has hot flashes, and her doctor told her to drink sage tea, brew it, then drink it cold.  It has completely taken away her hot flashes.  Maybe it would help regulate your temperature, too.

Answer 3

Shower every morning, and shower before you go out, and use body wash, obviously wash under your armpits, b*****s, rolls, between your legs well, etc. Wear a strong deodorant, such as Secret Clinical Strength and re-apply throughout the day. You can use Shower-to-Shower powder and sprinkle on yourself to also keep you dry. About you below the belt smell, use a wash designed for that area, not just regular soap. Change your underwear throughout the day, especially before you go out. Good Luck!

Answer 4

A little talc in your knickers and a panty liner will keep you fresh. xx Good luck xx

Answer 5

First of all, people who make fun of other people's looks do that because it makes them feel better about themselves.  If they weren't so self-conscious about certain aspects of themselves, why would they feel the need to make snarky comments about you?  I know this is easier said than done, but you really need to think of all the things YOU like about your looks and forget about what the people who DON'T MATTER say/think about you.  

Secondly, I know you said it's not the sweating that's the problem but it's  the after-effects that bother you.  You have to realize that the odour is a result of the bacteria that forms from the dampness of sweating.  Since you wash often, the sweating is the source of your problem. Everyone sweats, but if you're sweating excessively, even when you're not really exerting yourself physically, it sounds like you have Hyperhidrosis.  Hyperhidrosis is the term for excessive sweating beyond what is necessary to cool the body. Do a search for a hyperhidrosis clinic in your area (I know of one here in Toronto) and if you can't find one, consult your doctor for help with this condition.  It can be treated; often very easily.

Answer 6

i have a sweat problem to. I have learnt to live with it. And about your hips, I think larger hips are s**y as h**l. My gf thinks I'm weird because of it. (yes she has large hips)

Answer 7

I am also a sweaty so and so.I can really relate to your problem.I just get on with it but standing in a queue in a shop when you are dripping is a problem.I think sometimes people think I am about to have a heart attack!!!Try panty liners as has already been suggested and try to remember the more worried you get,the more you are likely to sweat.

Answer 8

I think it is getting worse because you tried too hard! and it makes you depressed. what you have to do is make yourself comfortable! you have to be comfortable with your body, with your cheeks, b*****s, be comfortable with everything you have! you shouldn't try too hard make yourself good looking, because you have been charming since the beginning! the last thing you have to do is meet your Doctor!