Ladies??? very personal?

Question

Do any of you have a problem climaxing with your guy? and if so, how to improve the s*x without hurting his feelings. how do you bring up something like that without him thinking he's not any good or that he is not big enough. that is not the problem at all.any suggestions?

Answer 1

I'm in my 40s and never have had an o****m with another person in the room. My trusty little battery operated boyfriend is all I need!

Answer 2

Look up where your g  spots are on the internet, the site should tell you what position will hit it. Now pick the ones that are easiest to hit and when your having s*x ask for that position.

Not to mention it may not be him, every1 likes s*x a little diffrent. Maybe you have a fetish that you never experimented with yet? For like a year I didn't know just how come during s*x I couldn't climax. Shoot then I saw kinky s*x on an anime movie and asked for it. I said call me a bitc#, pull my hair and hurt me just a lil. Not enough where it's not pleasurable! OMG! It was amazing! I'm not saying thats what your into but maybe you just need to find just the right thing. Maybe your a verbal person? If you talk it might get you off. Maybe you need to hear it? If he talks the whole time, calls you hot etc, you would like it? And believe you me, guys have no problem if you tell him during s*x "Oh my God that feels good! Talk dirty to me!" Let him know what you want or want to try (While your having s*x or he might feel like what you said, like hes not any good)  

Answer 3

dont tell him hes doing anything wrong, just be like "you know what i would really like? if you (fill in dirty action here)"

Answer 4

I had the same problem.I was honest with my boyfriend and told him that I loved having s*x with him but I was having problems reaching o****m because of stress or whatever reason, not because of him and that I wanted foreplay, that that would help me reach climax and we tried it. We also watched p**n together. My point is  if there is anything you think will help you reach climax, suggest your boyfriend to do it.  

Answer 5

tell him you want to try new things and then have fun. if you think about not climaxing your too preoccupied and you won't enjoy. go with the flow and also talk. not directly about the situation but be sneaky.