Ladies who would you rather date?

Question

OK so im 19 in a week , and my friends are 19 too. I recently gave up drugs, as i have court date comin up for felonies. Im done with that though, i went to the marines and got kicked out because thats when the warrant came out for my arrest. Now im gonna go to college, i quit drugs, im gonna get a job, and im pretty much grown up. I feel like i understand life more than my friends, like when we all talk it jus seems like they are selfish and dont care about themselves. I actually want a future. And how they think things and people are weird, but i realize everyone is weird in their own way. Its like they would think im weird if i ever told them that.

And as far as girls, they would think the same. I have high standards, but im thinking i shouldnt because everytime i meet a good looking girl they are immature. I wouldnt feel comfortable talking with them about life. They jus want to talk about themselves, and i dont like it.WHy cant i meet a girl that doesnt think everything is weird and is more serious about life?

Anyway heres me and my friends. Oh and by the one on the left acts like he is so cocky and hard, but then his saying is "im me". probably drugs. The guy on the right is my best friend, he understands life, but he smokes weed everyday. Its sad cuz he went to the marines with me and i know hes a smart guy but he doesnt wanna grow up. I want friends and a gf that i can relate to....about life. Still have fun, but not like everything is exciting. Its like i learned to jus chill and enjoy life, knowing i dont always have to be the one to say somethin, silence is golden kind of stuff :)

ME on the left:

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a316/hehateme00000/IMG_1551.jpg

My friends:

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a316/hehateme00000/joey2.jpg

Answer 1

probably u

Answer 2

you..only if you have a great personality~

Answer 3

Well, based on apperance, I dont like either in the 2nd photo, and the 1st photo is decent

Answer 4

You've come along way but are going down the wrong path.  That is by posting your pics and asking for an opinion.  

Ego lift?  Or you hope to meet someone on here?

To leave an answer:  Get your life in order first then think about dating.

Next.

Answer 5

You : )  

Answer 6

umm you but im like younger than you tho..lol but the thing bout drugs kinda scary...glad you done with that =]

Answer 7

You win.

You're handsome :)

Answer 8

you.

Answer 9

you!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

thats good for you that you gave up drugs, and going to college, and getting a job! and i would definatly date you! you seem really nice and your better looking than your friends... no offense to them!

Answer 11

good on you for wanting a better life and stopping the drugs.

i know what you mean about girls, and its kind of annoying as people judge me on appearance and thinkim vain and not a deep thinker, but its completely different once they know me. often say there surprised by me lol. maybe you just arent looking in the right places for a lady?

chilling and enjoying life without having to make something exciting happen all the time is the best, i write alot of poetry nowadays gets alot of emotions out and feels good- you should try it, not sissy poetry, mine can be quite dark (and not in an emo way!)

anyway you look the hottest more my type than the others if im honest x

Answer 12

I'd say you. none of you are bad looking, by any means, but you seem to  be getting your stuff together. I think almost any girl would agree that a guy who is mature and responsible will be a much better boyfriend in the end, as opposed to the guys who are super-cocky & who smoke pot all the time. so, I'll say you. hands down:)

as for the girl problem, don't expect to get an amazingly beautiful girl with a great body, who is mature and has a great personality, because these days that doesn't happen too often. the right girl will come along eventually.  

Answer 13

you deffinately sound more mature then your friends becuase you made the decision to grow up.and congrats on that.  :)

and as far as girls, you just have to keep lookin to find the right one. alot of us girls are immature, but believe it or not, some are serious about life  :)

Answer 14

You, because you want a future and seem like you know right from wrong(giving up drugs) Good luck on college!  

Answer 15

I would never date you, because of your past and your arrogance.

You aint my cup of tea looks wise either.

Answer 16

you mean whos better looking? id say u

Answer 17

i think your the cute one.

and i think its great your getting your life back together.

Just remember that your young, and thats probably why the girls you meet are so immature.

good luck!

Answer 18

okay, no doubt about it.

you.

Sorry to your friends....

Answer 19

Who's the most good-looking. You, probably.

Answer 20

From what you've said and your picture, you.

Answer 21

i would much rather date you. you seem way more mature and youre hot.