Ladies why should guys ask you out when you are going to trash their reputation when you are not interested?

Question

A guy asks out a woman... she declines his offer and then commences trashing his reputation - creep, stalker, sleaze, gossip about him etc etc etc

So why should a guy make the first move if there are going to be consequences like this to endure?

Answer 1

Don't date women you work with. You're just asking for trouble.

Don't date american women at all, if you really want my advise in the matter.

Answer 2

lol...Wow!!

Normally guys ask women out who they know are going to say yes, like someone at work, an eye love person across the way that constantly looks at him and so on so forth. ...

If your going to ask someone out who shows signs either body or verbal language to indicate no...then that is your problem... and of course she is going to trash you...duh

Trust me, men do the same when they get asked out buy a female who they think are far below their standards.

MAN UP!!

Answer 3

You are asking out the wrong women.   Most women do not do that.  Your question sounds more like a personal rant about something that just happened to you, and not a universal occurrence.

     If you think that one person's action attach to the group, you will have a hard life, because people will hurt you, and you will proceed to trash every group that that person belongs to.  Certainly men do the same thing, and we know that some also spread lies about women and say that they slept with them, ruining their reputation.  But I would never say that all men did that.

Answer 4

Yeah, they always call me a "lunatic"!

Answer 5

ive never done that to anyone....

life if full of risks..

Answer 6

I know it's wrong but women do it anyway. They want you ask them out so they can trash you,they all went to femenist school where they teach women to get mad at men and blame us for everything.

Answer 7

We don't all do this, but you should not let it stop you from trying

Answer 8

right.... maybe u shudent make the 1st move....

i get hit on by way more than my share of creeps.... stalkers... sleezebags....  u cudent make me happier than if they stoped making the 1st move...

Answer 9

You should have planted drugs in her apartment and arrested her, and her boyfriend.  That's really bad, man.