Ladies........why would a female co-worker?

Question

i work with a girl who sports pretty nice cleavage but i try to be professional and not gawk but i am a guy anyway she just came into my office and even though i was looking at my desk she pulls her sweater over her chest im the only guy she does this to what gives?

Answer 1

I think that was a major clue!  If you like easy tramps, go for it, otherwise, stop staring at her chest and tell her to knock it off!  This could be construed as sexual harassment (her harassing you).

Answer 2

that is wierd. personally i don't show off my cleavage unless i am feeling real flirty out on a date. It just makes me self conscious. And also i am not at work to pull so why would i show my assets.

Some girls do though. They just wear low cut tops all the time. So i guess they just want to show off or maybe they are really comfortable doing that.

But obviously this girl feels uncomfortable sometimes. hmmm. just around you then? hehehe maybe she either fancys you or thinks you are a lech. or maybe sometimes she just feels uncomfortable...like shes walking along and a draught hits her **** and she thinks..holy c**p i am actually quite exposed here.

Ignore her. I sense drama with her. At the very least she is not comfortable with herself and not sure how she wants to present herself.

Answer 3

she wants you.  have her come take a memo from under your desk.

Answer 4

They do it on porpuse. they like feeling lusted after guys, they like knowing that they are attractive. Just complement her, its what she wants to hear...

Answer 5

What a s***k - get away from her F A S T, sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen.....Good Luck

Answer 6

well personally i would send out a dress code memo!

and maybe tell her how you feel!

you noticed her and in her brain she things your all about her!

remember some females don't listen so you can say you don't date co workers till your blue in the face if your eyes even once looked and she has even the slightest attraction on you.. she will see it every time you even glance her way!

it's odd and more complex then what i typed but i dont have time to right a book!

hope you get my drift

Rock on!

Answer 7

Drop it. You are totally speculating. There are 100 reasons she could have done this. Nervous habit, Coldness, Respect for you....and on and on. I can see the wheels turning in your head driving you nuts. Let it go, even if you see a pattern, Just assume it's not about you and go about your day. Pick your battles or this one is just gonna drive you nuts.

Answer 8

maybe she'll stop after you take her on a date and act like a total ***. then she won't be crushin so hard! ;o)