Ladies would you still love your husbands if they started loosing their hair and got fat?

Question

Guys how would you feel if your wives started loosing their hair and got fat because of a thyroid condition, it does happen. would you still love them or would you loose you attraction to them and the love you had for them

Answer 1

I would still love him. Cause lets face I won't always look the same as I do now.  :)

Answer 2

I wouldn´t stop loving my husband. I would probably fight to keep him as good as I can, under all the possibilities! I love my husband physically so I wouldn´t want to see him all fat and with no hair, but about love and feelings, they wouldn´t disappear!

Answer 3

Please PLEASE learn the difference between "lose" and "loose".

Answer 4

He was fat when I married him and I took care of him when his back went out and he did nothing but lay on the floor for two weeks.  I took care of him sexually when he was too fat to find it.  What did I get in return?  He wanted to get some "strange" and was telling the entire world he had to beg for s*x!  He swore if I ever got fat he would divorce me.  We were married 30 years and all I got was verbal and mental abuse.

Answer 5

Yes, if he was nice!!!

Answer 6

love is not all looks, I maried my wife because of her heart,  

Answer 7

yes, I would still love them, my love isn't based on appearance

Answer 8

First of all, the ladies are answering because you stated your question starting with 'Ladies'.

I do love my husband and he has lost his hair and has gained about 60 lbs. When it comes down to it, it isn't just what someone looks like that is the most important thing but what is inside. Don't get me wrong, he is still attractive but he is older and a bit wider than before.

Answer 9

He has and I do!

Answer 10

I wouldn't mind as long as he is still loving me. I just want a man who is willing to hold my wrinkled hand and walk down the street with me when I'm in my very old age...

Answer 11

of course. I love him for who he is, not what he looks like. Right now we are both 27 and he is a very handsome man.....but someday we will both be 85 and I'm sure neither of us will look the same. I will still love him just the same. I hope he will feel the same way about me!

Answer 12

  I would love him as much as I do now.

Answer 13

nope. Would you love your wife if she gained 100 pounds and lost all her hair. Please all you guys care about is looks so why don't I so the same  

Answer 14

yes id still love him... life happens, I vowed in sickness and health...hair or not... hehe.. everyone knows that with most men, the hair will fall out to some degree anyway..... but in all honesty.... its not what makes me love him..... its whats inside that counts.  

Answer 15

Yep!  Love is not just about the outer appearance - you love the ENTIRE person, warts (or in this case fat and bald) and all!

If I could see that it was making them unhappy then I might subtley suggest that we started eating healthier etc, but I would most certainly not leave them just because their physical appearance had changed.

Answer 16

I would for sure ! Im dealing with same thing. My man sticks by my side at my "not so best" I stick by his..........  Im sure both our minds/eyes wander, but then I realize I love him for more then what we look like, more for who we are. Sounds cheesy but its true. What is that hot man/girl gonna do for me that is of importance? A one night stand....Im all set, id rather the companionship, comfort, love, effection, and support anyday!

PS - be aware alot of thyroid problems can be fixed/adjusted to return back to oneself. This is the whole in sickness and in health.

Answer 17

True love isn't just based upon looks. If you truly loved this person then them getting bigger or balder wouldn't change their insides. They are still the person you fell in love with. Remember through thick and thin and things do happen in life. I mean a if it's because of a health problem you can't blame them and make them suffer for that. Just be as supportive as possible and try to get through it together.