Ladys and fellas plz help me out on this ive been going crazy?

Question

ok so me and my ex girl have been talkin recently she texted m one day outta no where saying she still has feelings for me but shes was with this one dude but they broke up cause of me, we where both crazy about each other bck then, so now shes telling me she misses me and all but i tend to get a negative vibe in me, we both cheated on each other but i never said a thing to her so it makes me feel guilty..dont get me wrong i still like her but someting inside me is saying no.. idk wat to do should i try working things out or just move one..

Answer 1

if u still have feelings give it a try, but if you kinda do, then move on.

Answer 2

follow your gut.

Seriously!

Answer 3

If you give it another go, get it all out in the open about the past so that you can start with a clean slate.  Then you need to decide whether you can live with the past. If not go your seperate ways, if so give it a shot, but take it slow.  Don't get so wound up in the moment that you loose your common sense.  If your getting negative vibes it is probably your 6th sense telling you to step back. Your choice, just be honest, get it all off your chest and then go from there.

Answer 4

Follow your instincts...she is just trying to cover her bases by lining up someone else, because her present relationship is not working...and yes...you would be a fool to believe her.  Just tell her you're not interested....you've moved on....and hopefully you learned something about committment and faithfulness....you won't get it...if you don't give it as well.

Answer 5

My advice is move on. Trust those negative vibes. If they cheat on you once they will most likely cheat on you again.

Answer 6

just move on. If something is telling you no follow your instincts because they are probably right. Somethings are better left alone.

Answer 7

FOLLOW YOUR GUT FEELINGS ON THIS, DO YOU REALLY WANT HER BACK IN YOUR LIFE TO  BE CHEATED ON POSSIBLY BY YOU OR HER...................

Answer 8

if u wanna get back with her, u NEED to tell her u cheated. trust me, if u get back together and u dont tell her, itl eat u alive, the truth will come out, and itl make things worse. if u do it before ur committed to eachother again, she be more understanding, especially if shes done the same to u.

i reckon if u love her, try make another go at it. if u dont, you may regret it for the rest of ur life, and thats not an understatement.. unfortunately..

Answer 9

well you guys did break up, so move on! if the instincts say no than maybe no is a good idea.

Answer 10

move on........................a great way to move on is to tell her you had cheated on her THEN SHE WILL HATE YOU!!

Answer 11

move on.. if she would cheat them she sure as h**l will now.!

Answer 12

so s***w her and move on.