Last day of school?

Question

I'm really depressed right now. I just got off the bus and it's the last day of school. I saw the guy I liked on the way to my bus at the end of the day. And to point out how pathetic I am, I've like him the entire year and have never had the courage to talk to him. I was with my friend who also liked him, and I would have said something but he was making out with his girlfriend of apparently two weeks. .-_-. I was also anti-social all year, I feel like I completely wasted this year.

Answer 1

I am sorry to hear about ur situation. Right now, the only thing you can do is look for someone else. There is more than just one guy in the wolrd that u will like and chances are, you will find one of em this summer. Keep a positive mind and if it makes u feel better..think of how jealous ur crush will be wen he sees u with a new guy. Good luck!

Answer 2

I suggest finding something to do over the summer to help u forget about things. U should also join a type of summer program like camp, like u said.

I fell like i didn't help that much but i hope i did.

Answer 3

The good news is this sort of angst is normal for teens.  I assure you that it does pass and you will grow out of it.

Yeah, maybe you could have been more outgoing.  But the past is over and you can't change it.  All you can do is decide what you are going to do NOW.  

Being anti-social made you unhappy; what are you going to do right now, today, this week, this summer, to make you happy?  Ask yourself that question each day; tape it onto your bathroom mirror if you have to.  Decide each day how you want to be from now on.  You may stumble from time to time, but you'll be heading in the right direction.

Next year, force yourself into activities that require you to be more outgoing.  Sign up for clubs - not just as a member, but as an officer.  Offer to organize a fundraising drive or chair a committee.  Make it a goal to start a friendly conversation with one potential friend or crush each week.  Reach out to people - it's easier to be a leader if you realize that other people are probably even more shy than you; it's you making others feel comfortable instead of you seeking attention for yourself.

Answer 4

if you have anyones number call them and ask them do they want to hang you seem like a pretty cool person so who ouldent want to hang with you as for the boy work up the courage to go and talk to him he might feel the same about you as you do about him you never know make next school year better reach out to more people go to lunch and sociliaze and your not pathic just scared of meeting new people and reaching out leave this school year behind because next schol year will be better