Late 20s and single.....?

Question

I'm having trouble finding a bf. I've done the whole online dating site - with no luck. I've only been out with two guys, 1 turned out the complete oppisite of what he said he was (turned out to be a very big drama queen), we lasted 1 month we tried to make it work, and the other just wanted to stay as a casual relationship (see each other when he wanted), we lasted 4 months - nice guy, but we decided to go seperate ways, I met both of them via friends - never again.

Now 2 years down the track and i'm still having no luck searching for a bf, I've seen other guys in between but they were just one nighters.

There is nothing wrong with my appearence and get the odd double-take look from guys.... I am a little heavy on the sides (dam love-handles.lol.) but not overly huge/beer gut type - not that theres anything wrong with rounded type guys.

Why is it hard finding a bf? Anyone knows of where I can a meet nice genuine guy...i.e. some secret website I dont know about, club/social group? any suggestions?

Answer 1

If you haven't already checked out the site, I would suggest you browse through GayNZ.com. These 2 articles may be helpful:

http://www.gaynz.com/community/g*y-akl.p...

http://www.gaynz.com/articles/publish/43...

Good luck.  

Answer 2

I have been having the exact same problem and it's killing me. lol. All I can say is, just hang in there and you'll find someone.  

Answer 3

try and get into some sort of volunteer program, maybe volunteer at a local g*y and L*****n center, you'd meet hundreds of people and get yourself out there.