Lately, I have been fantisizing about every man I see, anyone else been through this? It is embarrassing.?

Question

I'm married.

Answer 1

It is normal.  Just don't act on it!!

Answer 2

I am married too. Guys feel like that more often than women. Why is it such a problem for you?

Answer 3

its pretty much normal to fantisize about different things..i know all guys do it they are just more open about it than women...as long as it keeps your s*x drive high and your husband is pleasing you nothing wrong with it..most all do have some kind of fantisie..i see women and fantisize about my wife being with them....lol.....and me too...so dont worry about it....sort of bring it up to your husband you might be suprised too to see that he fantisizes about you and the same man..lol...it happens....might lead to something very exciting..

Answer 4

if you're not acting on it then what's the problem?   i believe most guys would prefer their wives to have an active mind, sexually speaking, than only worrying about the mundane.

Answer 5

You are looking for something that it sounds like you're not getting at home. What is it you ask?  Romance from your husband!  Most of us men have never been taught how to truly be romantic to our wives.

I didn't until I almost lost the most prescious person in my life, my wife of 22 years.

She was like you, looking, searching for the very thing that should have been coming from me. Compliments, affection, caring, love, attention ect..

To make a long story short, I got my wife back by showing her that I really loved her. It took a long time for her to believe me because I did several things that were typically  out of character for me. Things I hadn't been taught.

I take her face in my hands every day and tell her how beautiful I think she is and that I love her more than anything.

I write her love letters, come sweet, some scorching hot and VERY PRIVATE. I also do this though e-mail( www.secretsite.com)gives you blank cards to put your own words in.

I buy her greeting cards and flowers to surprise her with about twice per month.

We've done things in our lovemaking that would make the p**n industry stand up and take notice, and not even use toys.

These things done by your husband can truly change you realtionship to where you won't think of anybody BUT him.

Don't ever fail to tell him what you want and like and don't care how messy it gets. That's half the fun.