Lately it has been hurting during s*x..?

Question

My boyfriend and I have had s*x every day for the past 4 days. Usually it's only once or twice a week. Last night when we did it [for the 4th time in a row] it hurt. It was like I could feel him inside me pushing on my insides or something, I really don't know how to describe it. No, it's not an STD so don't mention that, and no I'm not pregnant. Could it be because I'm not used to doing it so often?

Answer 1

You should call in to the show Talk s*x with Sue Johanson. She always comes up with some good answers.

Answer 2

It could be a few things. If you're very concerned or this doesn't heal on it's own in a week or so, you should consult a gynecologist.

You could have Endometriosis which are growths around the uterus. You could have a tilted cervix. You could have been bruised. You could just be tired.

Perhaps try a new position. Being entered from behind is a good one because you are more positioned to take the length of his p***s. You could also use an aid like a pillow under your back for the Missionary position so that you can angle your pelvis a bit better.

You may also want to try more foreplay. The more relaxed you are the more relaxed your v****a will be. The muscles won't contract so tightly around his p***s, so that every time he thrusts it may not hurt so much. Speaking of thrusting - you may also want to have him move in and out slower and not the full length. Constant and repetitive motions like that might have bruised you and you just need a little rest.

Also, try some lube. s*x lube will cut down the friction that you feel, which might lead to some more pleasurable sensations.

I work for Adam & Eve, which sells a lot of s*x toys and lubes, and I've heard other people at work talk about similar situations. If you don't want to take a break from having s*x (cause who does?) you may want to try some different options. I don't want this to sound ad-like but if you are interested in any sexual aids we have this great thing called the Liberator Wedge, which is great for positioning yourself into multiple angles. That way you can relax more and he can a different experience. I've put a link below to the Liberator if you're interested.

Answer 3

Nope, I know what that's like. He's probably just really big, and you're feeling exactly what it is, him pushing on your cervix. Bodies getting used to accompanying him, so you can feel him better.

Answer 4

It can be that your swollen inside from so doing so much, which is causing you to be soar probably.  If it hurts too much you should give it a day or 2 for the swelling to go down.  

Answer 5

Get checked by GP... I had this and it turned out to by Endometriosis (sorry, might not be spelt right!)  

Answer 6

your body is tired - that's probably all it is