Lately my G/F of three months has grown distant?

Question

Lately my G/F of three months has grown distant. The last time we spent time together was last wednesday for a few hours when she came over and I made b-fast and she was working on job applications then we took a shower together before I had to go to work. Today she started a new job and I asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner and celebrate her new job. She responded with lets see if i make it thru the day before we celebrate. I replied with I would like to see you as it has been a week since we have done anything together. Alittle while ago she responded with I'm sorry I have been trying to figure some stuff out. Anyways I am just wondering how I should handle this.

Answer 1

She is under pressure about her job situation. Just let her know that you are there for her and if she needs anything just let you know! Tell her that you love her and let me know when it is a good time to get together- I miss you.

and then see how it goes- good luck  

Answer 2

She's cheating on you

Answer 3

Give her some space and let her figure out what she is trying to figure out.  Let her contact you when she wants to get together.  If you force the issue, you may end up arguing which could lead to a break up.

Answer 4

Sounds like she's up to something.  Don't call her and see how long it takes for her to get back with you. Sometimes women like to be 'chased', get my drift, like if you are ALWAYS available to her then she might be getting bored with your relationship.  Go hang out with ya fellas for a week or two and one of two things wil happen...

1...She misses you terribly, calls you and says she realizes she's been avoiding you and is sorry.

2...She won't call and will move on - but hey least you know...get a few phone numbers 'just in case'