Leaving home for the first time ?

Question

Im gonna leave home the first time probly some time next year perhaps i dont have a good relationship with my father we never see eye to eye he never understands me at all but i think he just doesnt care is what it really is and i dont get along with my step mom either he remarried after my mom passed away when i was 11 like 2 years after she passed and he dated her like a year after she died i think it was fast hes called the cops on me numerous times in the past and kicked me out not permanently tho he would get mad when we would argue and threaten me with it then id leave everytime he called them or kicked me out id be walking around either sad or crying because i knew i should of left sooner i know this might sound silly but im not sure if im ready to leave yet i think everyone has that feelin the first time they move out at the sametime i know if i keep staying here the problem is just gonna persist so its kinda bitter sweet can anybody help me out?

Answer 1

Moving out is always hard. Even if the home environment is not the best, leaving still separates us from what we are used to.

I hope that you are going somewhere safe.

Nonetheless, there will be struggles.

Leaving the dependence of our parents means that we will have to make decisions that were once made for us.

We have to pay for things that were once paid for us.

We have to solve our own problems, when we used to let our parents handle them.

I wish you the best of luck & a happy future